Genealogy Chat

Brilliant news--I don't know how he's been so patient. If he's anything like me when I met my brother last year for the first time he'll need some Rescue Remedy with him !! or something stronger !! Longing to hear the outcome. All the best to him.

I too have followed your thread from the beginning but not added. Good luck to your BIL -can't wait to hear the outcome. Don't ever think peolpe see the thread and think 'not that again'. If they're not interested, they won't read it! There are loads of us out there who are very interested and concerned. Bev

Sammy what can I say that already has'nt been said! A very sad experience for all involved, especially BIL. Hope everything turns out as he wishes it to be. Im sure there will be a light at the end of the tunnel, even if this process means turning the experience into a positive, interms of the inner strength he obviously has and displays! Very best wishes to you all Lib

Thanks everyone, lovely to hear from you all, I've got everything crossed for him too :) Sam

Sam I've not posted on this thread before either, but send you all very best wishes for a positive outcome on Wednesday. Will be thinking of you then. Helen

Hi sammy Have been following this thread from the start...feel as if I know your BIL after all these weeks ( I think we all feel like that!!) have been sitting here hoping that he would take the step of visiting her in person. Shall have my fingers crossed on wednesday and will send him all my positive thoughts. Hope it turns out the way that he want's it to or at least so that he can have some closure on this. Justine x

Just to add my good wishes to the pile already there! Christine

Hi everyone :) My BIL scared to death bless him, but he's still going. I admire him so much for doing this, it's almost a 4hr drive from here, and the 4hr drive back will be even worse if she wont speak to him, but it's got to be done. I really hope the journey is worth it, I mean I hope she's home... I hope she answers the door... I pray she doesn't slam it in his face... We'll have to wait & see I'll let you know anything as soon as I I find out Sam

Hi Sammy, I will be keeping everything crossed for your BIL for tomorrow and hope everything turns out well. Heather

Hi Sammy, Sending all best wishes for your BIL tomorrow. I really hope all goes as well as he would want. It's a very brave thing to do. Linda x

Hi Sammy, I haven't added to this thread before but have watched it with interest. Hope everything goes well for him tomorrow, and tell him not to take no for an answer if someone else answers the door. He can always say he will wait patiently outside for as long as it takes (even if he can't really do this). Perhaps they will see how serious he is about a meeting. My best wishes go with him for a happy outcome. Kath. x

Hi Sammy, ditto to what Kathleen just said and I hope he gets a good response from his mum sending best wishes tomorrow. Julie xxx

Hi Sam Well I took your advice + am not going on holiday! LOL We decided it was going to be too busy due to school hols + also the weather is so miserable, so are just going out for days. I just wanted to wish BIL all the best for tomorrow...THINK POSITIVE, be confident and GO for it. His Mother must have thought in the back of her mind that he would want to see her sometime.(I know I would have) Who knows it may *lay the ghosts to rest* for her. Anyway, I wont ramble on.......Take care. Love Ann x

hi sammy i also have been watching your thread but never replyed sending lots of good wishes your way.iv never met my birth parents and wouldnt know how i would feel if i did so understand a little about how hes feeling lots of hugs angie x

- and here's another hoping against hope for a good outcome and sending lots of positive thoughts. Liz

I've been following this thread too. I wish your sis and BIL all the very best for tomorrow; am so glad he's decided to go to Wales. My thoughts are with them - look forward to receiving some good news from the Mum front. Take care Jan

Hi Sammy Like a lot of others I have watched with interest this thread. I also have never added to it. I would like to wish your BIL all the best for Wednesday and hope he gets a good outcome from it all. He sounds like a really nice guy and he is lucky to have you as an inlaw someone who really cares about him. Tell him to be strong whatever the outcome. Best Wishes Kindest Regards Jackie

Hi Sammy Like many of us all on here I've been following this thread....will be thinking of and sending positive vibes and support to B.I.L, you and family tomorrow. Sarah xxx :)

all good wishes, Sam. :-) Joy

Popping in to wish BIL all the best for tomorrow. Have been following this thread for some time now, and after all his bad luck recently, things must change for him soon. Hopefully tomorrow will be the start of better things for him. I do hope so. Dianne xx