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Update on 86yrs old neighbours SAT
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Mommylonglegs | Report | 31 Mar 2008 04:49 |
I have just spent the last 2 hours across the road at my 86yrs old neighbours, after the Husband telephoning me saying his Wife was distressed. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 04:51 |
Morning Jenny, been up for about 15 mins now with the rugrat, I won't get back to bed now. How is your neighbour? are you ok? |
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Mommylonglegs | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:04 |
Good morning HB sorry dont know your name. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:13 |
Hi Jenny, my name is shirley. What a situation for you all, what an appaling nhs we have now. I really don't know what to say but I do think the dr should have come out to her, if she has broken anything else she will be in dreadful pain and shouldn't move. I would feel as helpless as you too and her poor hubby. What time does her help come in the morning? |
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Mommylonglegs | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:18 |
It is obvious that J is in need of constant nursing or at least something to help her pain during her last few days with us. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:20 |
Jenny, have pmd you. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:23 |
I feel so sad for them Jenny, do you think she may need an ambulance before morning, or maybe phone her daughter who could advise you if she lives too far away. |
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SueMaid | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:24 |
I can't give you any advice, Jenny. However, would it help her husband if you sat with her while he gets some sleep because you don't need for them both to be ill. The other thing is could you not ring an ambulance and have her taken into hospital. I don't know how things are in UK (I'm in Australia) but once she is in hospital surely they will have to do something. They are very lucky to have you as a neighbour. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:29 |
I think if Jenny is not responding to this thread she may have had to go back over. |
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maxiMary | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:30 |
Jenny, having no idea how the NHS works, but as someone who works (for 20 years as of today!) in a home for the aged, can you call the hospital for advice, she should not be left in severe pain,in the care of someone who is 86 himself, as much as he may care, it's got to be taking a toll on him too. She deserves good pain control, and repositioning regularly to prevent skin breakdown. She also needs rest. Somehow the system is letting her down, is there an emergency department you can call perhaps? This is not good enough, and bless you for taking the time to care. So many today don't want to "get involved". Someone of advanced age needs an advocate, Has her daughter been called to come back and sit with her, surely she should be made awre. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:33 |
It make me despair, the way things are run now, I know being at home is better than in hospital what with the bugs and all but sometimes theses dr's and hospital folk get me so mad. |
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Mommylonglegs | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:34 |
Hi Shirley, sorry was trying to put into words just what the situation is. I for once am at a loss for words. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:39 |
do you have the daughters phone no? I think an ambulance is needed here Jenny. I feel you are in an awful situation here where you don't know what to do for the best, let the nurses and doc's at hospital help her, she needs some kind of pain relief in any case poor soul |
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Mommylonglegs | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:40 |
Sorry for the delay in my last post, went to make a cuppa. I did offer to stay whilst the hubby got some sleep. Bless him, he is usually up and dressed by 5am anyway, but goes to bed a 9pm. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:41 |
Jenny, personally if there is still a light on, I would go back over and check the situation and then I would probably ring for an ambulance and let the daughter know. That way you will have covered all angles. Her poor hubby will be having a heart attack with the worry if she carries on like that, bless her. |
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Hoobity | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:43 |
Good on you Jenny, you're right she will care and want her mum comfortable. |
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Little Lost | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:43 |
good morning Jenny |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 31 Mar 2008 05:43 |
Just caught up with the newer posts Jenny and I think you are right, call the daughter. I found the daughter of my neighbour was very happy for me to do all the running about and being called in the middle of the night etc, and altho I missed Dot, I was glad when the daughter got her into sheltered housing nearer to her. When that didn't work out due to Dot falling, she got her in a home where she spent several years being cared for and having company. |
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Hilary | Report | 31 Mar 2008 06:01 |
Hi Jenny, if the daughter is caring, she would'nt mind what time day or night you called her. I think the old lady at least should be checked out at hospital. Do they not have any kind of emergency cords or pendants on them, sounds as if she could do with a pendant at least. |
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TaniaNZ | Report | 31 Mar 2008 06:20 |
Hi jenny |