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dutch Report 10 Jun 2008 14:08

My best friends son got married last week and his mum didnt go the wedding and the next day one of her friends who may i add only wants her when it suits her,anyway shes invite my friend to her sons wedding and she going her son is rather upset about this and i can see why she never even sent acard,i dont think its very nice but hubbys told me stay out of it not your problem do you think hes right


Merlin Report 10 Jun 2008 14:13

Plain answer, "Yes",But be there for The Son,as I,m sure you are. **M**.


tigerlilly Report 10 Jun 2008 14:14

yes and no dutch its very hard to know what to do i am quite out spoken when i need to be and i will say things if i think they need saying do what you think is best go with your heart take care xx


PinkDiana Report 10 Jun 2008 14:18

Sweets its best to stay out of it as you may not have the full facts.......... in my opinion there is always an emotional reason why parents don't attend weddings!!



dutch Report 10 Jun 2008 14:43

thanks everyone your right im staying out of it shes going the wedding this weekend,the son was going to say something but decide against it as he,ll go to far and his mums 72 so hes saying nothing,i think i no why she said no but im not saying just leave things as they are