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Advice please re MIL

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Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:17

Chris and Ann, im sure you are right,

im caring and maternal, but i know its not going to be returned, thankyou,I know my OH has big issues wih his Mum, i dont want to be involved but i do so because i love him.

Caz xxx

♫chris in oz♫

♫chris in oz♫ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:18

i agree ann

gotta go its our hospital run again

take care caz and be cool lol

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 22 Jun 2008 21:18

If your MiL would rather believe the stories her grandson is telling over what you say, then she doesn't deserve any more of your attention......her loss......x

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:31

Hope all is ok with hubbie Chris love,

Thankyou Sally, but she is a person who only hears what she wants too, my parents are rounded, and see all views, she does not,

Thats whats so hard for me,

Caz xxx


JoyBoroAngel Report 22 Jun 2008 21:32

a good friend will

help you hide the body lolxxx

♫chris in oz♫

♫chris in oz♫ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:38

lol lol lol joy
wheres the spade pmsl

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:41

very good idea ladies!!!

Ta for pms peeps will reply tommoz!!

Caz xxx

Lady Cutie

Lady Cutie Report 22 Jun 2008 21:42

ive got the spade

do you want to borrow it lol

SIR  Andy of the garter

SIR Andy of the garter Report 22 Jun 2008 21:44


Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:45

Thanks Pippi, it means a lot. im at my wits end, with my own kids, and work too,

Hazel, lol, I wish,

Caz xxx

Ladylol Pusser Cat

Ladylol Pusser Cat Report 22 Jun 2008 21:45

pmsl at woman hitler , thats my new name when she rings woman hitler is on the phone

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 22 Jun 2008 21:46

Hello Andy, i just KNOW you understand!!!

Caz xxxx

SIR  Andy of the garter

SIR Andy of the garter Report 22 Jun 2008 21:57

i sure do...

Hayley   Empress of Drama

Hayley Empress of Drama Report 22 Jun 2008 22:02

why dont you write her a nice laetter caz.....I can help.....**rushes of to get felt pens**


Kay???? Report 22 Jun 2008 22:06

Sorry cant help.

I had one of the most lovelry of MIL anyone could wish for,none interfering,,none critical,none unkind
,,,I miss her vey much,one in a million,,,,,,

(¯`*•.¸Pippi Longsox`*•.¸_)

(¯`*•.¸Pippi Longsox`*•.¸_) Report 22 Jun 2008 22:23

been thinking(ahem,lol),your hubby needs to spend time with his son,away from everyone else,and he can explain to him that he made you feel uncomfortable,but that shouldnt change their relationship,and to explain to him that he shouldnt be making more of it than there really is,that his actions are ruining the family that he may well need one day,ok ive said me bit,lol,hope it all works out Caz,take care,x


Phyllis Report 22 Jun 2008 22:43

Hi Caz,
Sorry I cant help you on this one never had a MIL, but I can try and understand what you are going through. Sending you some HUGS to help you through this problem