General Chat

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Am totally p*ssed off with my lot (kids aged 10 & 12).

Always fighting and squabbling... they started as soon as they come in from school and stops when they go to bed.

So so fed up with them

we got a sofa bed !

Cheers, if they come in this afternoon and carry on I'll be taking you up on it Pippi.

Got a new shed :)...xx

sorry aint got any words of wisdom for you,am not one of those "supernanny types",lol

could put our sofa bed in Queens new shed,there ya go!!

We have a shed too, but knowing my luck if I went in there they would bl**dy follow me lol

Come to a head yesterday they were fighting on the landing and the eldest picked up the other one by his neck and pushed him down the stairs, luckily he was on his belly and his feet hit the wall at the bend of the stairs. She wasn't even sorry or show any remorse either...

ahhhhhhhhh female-more deadly than the male!! well mine was,try putting the kids in the shed (any social workers reading this-i didnt just say that,lol)

There dad threatend them with Social Services when he came in from work... cause he is fed up too.

you could always pretend to be phoning social services...asking if they have rooms available in kids home.........put then thats prob against the law now too,now in myyyyyy day........,hmmmm sticky one this,im not sure what you can and cant do anymore,both mine are adults now-somehow i managed not to bury em in the garden!!

i think someone should open "mothers homes",where you can go for a break and they send someone to murder.........oops i mean "care for" your little darlings!,ahem

Thanks Teresa...

Hubby and I havn't fell out, we are still talking at the end of the day they belong to him too.

They were ok this morning mind you they were only in the same room for 5 mins before the eldest went out for her school bus and the youngest was busy feeding his face with cereal.

Just dreading 3.30 coming round

Try agreeing with everything they say-it's very effective worked a treat with our lot,they've got no come back!Good Luck :)

What a dam good idea Pippi... we should petition the Prime Minister to bring out a bill for a stressed mothers home lol

Have tried that Eeyore, but not very successful...

maybe you could write them a list of chores each to do when they get home......and they dont get any treats or fight time till they're done,failier to complete the tasks results in playstation or whatever being confiscated-for a month...i did this with my son and his football-you would have thought i had chopped his legs off the fuss-but it worked!,i dunno,just an idea

Teresa how old are they?

Thanks for all the advice, but been there done that and they still fight and argue...



I never done things like that cause I knew my dad would batter me stupid he only had to shout and I would cry.... mind you my sisters were 9 and 14 years older than me, but I grew up with my neice who is 3 yrs younger and she was evil at times lol

if all else fails,but em each a first aid kit and let em get on with it......turn the radio up full belt,have a glass (or bottle) of wine and drift off into oblivion!!!!