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₪ TeresaW elite empress of deleted threads | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:29 |
There you are Tuna, you have aplan...step one complete! |
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sealyham | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:42 |
l know EXACTLY what you are going through |
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Mazfromnorf | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:54 |
Tina I echoe Marylins words I know what you are going through my OH left me for a drivers wife ,Rubbished me in the process this area is his home not mine ,my two were doing their exams . He had to tstay while they were looking for accommodation until I put everything in blacks sacks changed the locks he was stopping my money so I foned the then family credit and got that through in 10 days .It has been hard but I took each day as it came when it was really tough it was hour by bour .I did it got out of the debt he left in two years , I have the house and mortgage .my real freinds stuck by me along with the firm he worked for I now am known as Marion and not his ex wife ..I dont have much cash but I can walk tall and I have tried not to be too bitter as it dont help .what has spurned me on was that he always reconed I was useless and I have proved Him wrong .I hope this encourages you to keep fighting If you want to talk any time I am here maz |
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MaggyfromWestYorkshire | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:35 |
Can't really add any more to this Tina, you have lots of good advice from everyone. |
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TaniaNZ | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:38 |
Tina it is perfectly reasonable to hate them both at the moment,what they have done is shitty and your feelings are quite normal. |
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AnninGlos | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:59 |
tina |
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CMD | Report | 28 Jun 2008 13:13 |
Dearest Tina, |
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Harpstrings | Report | 28 Jun 2008 14:28 |
Dear Tina |
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Merlin | Report | 28 Jun 2008 14:34 |
Tina, Kick him out now,You don,t have to put up with him being there just because of the renovation of the property,its in his interest to get it sorted,( You would,nt allow an outside contractor to live in ) so why him? Plus,if you have children of school age,you can get security of tenure untill they leave school,and he has to wait untill then to get his share of the house. Don,t mess about or let him mess you and your children about,you all deserve better.**M**. |
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maryjane-sue | Report | 28 Jun 2008 14:50 |
If he has to stay in the house for another month, then take advantage of it and leave him to look after the kids while you go out on the town. Make it look like you have moved on already, even if you havent. If you cant face going out on the town, then lie and go and spend an evening with a friend and a bottle of wine, or at the cinema - just lie to him when you get back and say what a great time you have had. Say you met some interesting new people that you may/will meet up with again next week. |
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Sue (Sylvia Z ) | Report | 28 Jun 2008 15:18 |
Tina, |
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maxiMary | Report | 28 Jun 2008 15:23 |
Dear Tina. |
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MrDaff | Report | 28 Jun 2008 15:37 |
Tina love, can't add anything to this... everything has been said... I do admire your strength of character in trying so desperately hard not to be horrid about him/them in front of your older stepdaughter... I know how much she means to you, and I know you love The Attitude too, even though she has put you through the mill even before all this hit the fan. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 28 Jun 2008 15:58 |
Hi Tina, |
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(¯`*•.¸JUPITER JOY AND HER CRYSTAL BALLS(¯`*•.¸ | Report | 28 Jun 2008 16:45 |
aww hun,i can only imagine whats in your mind at this moment.but believe me and remember this... |
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(¯`*•.¸JUPITER JOY AND HER CRYSTAL BALLS(¯`*•.¸ | Report | 28 Jun 2008 16:55 |
thinking bout it tuna..........i hate um ,and i never met um .lol. |
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Cumbrian Caz~**~ | Report | 28 Jun 2008 17:45 |
Tina my love, |
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Sally Moonchild | Report | 28 Jun 2008 18:21 |
Tina, you have behaved with such courage and your dignity is intact......this is a bad time you are going through now, but once he is gone out of your life, you can go on......and look back in later years on this time and be pleased with yourself that you stayed so strong.......You have so many friends on this board who are rooting for you, and some who have been where you are now.......please take strength from their knowledge.......my heart goes out to you......x sally |
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Izzy | Report | 28 Jun 2008 19:48 |
hi Tina, i don't post here often now but felt moved to on reading your post. |
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Mazfromnorf | Report | 29 Jun 2008 18:43 |
hi again I did what Izzy did slowly and bit by bit i have decorated right through , the first few weeks i went through every cupboard and made sure everything was gone bills etc , The CAB gave me a good check list for changing all the bills into my name .which kept me busy . hope you are ok today Maz |
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