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CMD | Report | 28 Jun 2008 13:13 |
Dearest Tina, |
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AnninGlos | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:59 |
tina |
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TaniaNZ | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:38 |
Tina it is perfectly reasonable to hate them both at the moment,what they have done is shitty and your feelings are quite normal. |
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MaggyfromWestYorkshire | Report | 28 Jun 2008 12:35 |
Can't really add any more to this Tina, you have lots of good advice from everyone. |
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Mazfromnorf | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:54 |
Tina I echoe Marylins words I know what you are going through my OH left me for a drivers wife ,Rubbished me in the process this area is his home not mine ,my two were doing their exams . He had to tstay while they were looking for accommodation until I put everything in blacks sacks changed the locks he was stopping my money so I foned the then family credit and got that through in 10 days .It has been hard but I took each day as it came when it was really tough it was hour by bour .I did it got out of the debt he left in two years , I have the house and mortgage .my real freinds stuck by me along with the firm he worked for I now am known as Marion and not his ex wife ..I dont have much cash but I can walk tall and I have tried not to be too bitter as it dont help .what has spurned me on was that he always reconed I was useless and I have proved Him wrong .I hope this encourages you to keep fighting If you want to talk any time I am here maz |
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sealyham | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:42 |
l know EXACTLY what you are going through |
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₪ TeresaW elite empress of deleted threads | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:29 |
There you are Tuna, you have aplan...step one complete! |
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Tina-Marie | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:25 |
LOL Teresa and Maggie... |
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₪ TeresaW elite empress of deleted threads | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:20 |
Maggie (once again) I did exactly the same, when he left I got the paintbrushes out and painted the house in bright warm colours rather than the pale colours that he had insisted on... |
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MaryinSpain | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:01 |
Can't add anything to this as it has already been said. So sending you (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 28 Jun 2008 11:00 |
Just think of the building works as squeezing whatever you can out of him, to benefit your future. Give the house a lick of paint when he's gone - and make sure he goes - I painted every room in my house various shades of pink - because he hated the colour - I wasn't too keen on it, but boy, did I feel better!! It was like a freedom to do whatever I wanted, didn't have to take anyone elses opinion into account :o) |
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₪ TeresaW elite empress of deleted threads | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:43 |
Tuna, what you're feeling at this moment is all your emotions rolled into one, hurt, anger, frustration, regret, grief, fear and you are now ready to start to move forward... |
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Whirley | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:39 |
TM sorry to hear what a dreadful time you are going through. He will be the loser in the long run and it sounds as if he doesn't deserve you anyway!! |
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Silly Sausage | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:24 |
If I was in your shoes Tina I would be a lyer if I said I wasn't scared , in a years time you will surprize yourself Tina...you will look back and think where did I find my strengh ....? |
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ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:17 |
ps just seen your last post Tina (got sidetracked by son & heir ) |
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ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:16 |
Why cant he go live with her now ? |
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Silly Sausage | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:14 |
Tuna ..lovely to see you...I can only echo what others have said....all of it...I know its hard to not to blame him as much as her as you love him and thats when it hits home... I have felt this raw pain and anger I was 18 when my first marriage broke down and I had a 6mth old baby, the pain I went through at the time I wouldnt wish on my worse enermy....but I did....lol ( the other women ) ........the thing is you will never ever feel it again.. xxxxx |
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Tina-Marie | Report | 28 Jun 2008 10:08 |
Thank you so much.. everyone. |
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Teddys Girl | Report | 28 Jun 2008 09:59 |
My uncle ran off with another woman, and after a few years she chucked him for another man. |
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Kay???? | Report | 28 Jun 2008 09:49 |
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