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a bit of advice to you all
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Barrie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 06:59 |
if you have problems with your mates , Try and talk about them never give up on your mates, always think of the good times and try to sort things out, |
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Fi aka Wheelie Spice | Report | 11 Jul 2008 07:24 |
However they dont always want to know so be aware. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 11 Jul 2008 07:27 |
It's always worth a try, but some people are too lazy to make an effort. I have a friend who is happy to chat for hours if I or another pal phone her, but never calls us, and is not the sort who will offer help if you need it, rather she will come out with an excuse. If she needs help we are always there, or used to be. I haven't heard from her in two years and gave up calling, then the Christmas cards stopped too. I sent a card when I saw in the paper her Mum had died but no call to say thanks or to accept any help I offered. |
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Kay???? | Report | 11 Jul 2008 07:27 |
some things cant be mended,even if it is mates, |
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Barrie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 07:36 |
Kay |
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Jax in Wales | Report | 11 Jul 2008 07:53 |
Sometimes you can only try so many times before you reach your limit even with friends. |
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Barrie | Report | 11 Jul 2008 15:36 |
Thats a fair point Jax |
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♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 15:39 |
If you disagree with a true friend, you can either agree to disagree and move on, or reconcile your differences. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 11 Jul 2008 16:25 |
L G - you are so right, my brothers are the same, one didn't even bother with my son's birthday yesterday, fgs, they only have three nephews!!! |
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Helen in Kent | Report | 11 Jul 2008 17:04 |
Hi, Barrie. |
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♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 17:20 |
In life, we all change as our circumstances and lives change, friendships that last a lifetime are incredibly rare I think. |
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Rambling | Report | 11 Jul 2008 17:32 |
I have three 'best friends' that I would trust with my life....more to the point I would trust my son to them which speaks volumes I think. |
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Rambling | Report | 11 Jul 2008 17:39 |
La Gooner , I can't..but my mum could have done lol...she and her best friend were friends for 61 years till my mum's death . |
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Muffyxx | Report | 11 Jul 2008 19:34 |
I think some friendships have a shelf life and that if there has been a deep hurt or a betrayal then it's sometimes best to walk away head held high, rather than keep beating yourself up by trying to mend things with somebody which can't be mended. xx |
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Cumbrian Caz~**~ | Report | 11 Jul 2008 19:48 |
I find friendships can become more difficult to maintain as the years go by, and if you are very hurt by someone it makes you wary and not willing to put your heart on the line any more, |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 12 Jul 2008 04:53 |
La Gooner, I always wanted a sister so when my bro got married I hoped his wife would be a good friend if nothing else, but not to be, altho she doesn't have many friends anyway. Other s.i.l. was always a trouble maker (my parents only tolerated her cos she took my bro away from their house at last, he was 35 and still expecting Mum to wash and iron and cook for him!) and the only friends she has are those she pays for to go on holiday with her when my bro won't leave his business. |