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Can any of you kind peeps help?

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Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 18:55

1 sec....x

Caz x

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 18:57

My son Josh saw his real Dad and step Mum the other day, he was ignored and i think its got to him.

Tonight he asked me to help him get in contact with his Grandparents who he hasnt seen for 7 years. I have tried directory enquiries, no sign.

Then I looked at the electoral role and found a death for someone matching the name. But i cant afford to subscribe. Does anyone have it?

Many thanks, Josh said ' Id like to see my Grandparents before they die'

Caz xxx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 19:05

Thanks so much Jackie, I feel really gutted for the kids.I know that this is what this site is all about.


Caz xx

♫ Penny €

♫ Penny € Report 31 Jul 2008 19:06

Is the death on ancestry?

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 19:10

Hi Penny,

I was on ancestry until last month, havent renewed.

Im not certain he is dead, but there was a name that matched his.

Caz xx

♫ Penny €

♫ Penny € Report 31 Jul 2008 19:11

I've pm'd you Caz

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 19:17

Thanks penny, pmd back

Caz xx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 19:31

Thanks snowie, will look,


Caz xx

KempinaPartyhat

KempinaPartyhat Report 31 Jul 2008 19:35

I,m a member of Ancestry if you need any help just pm me

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 19:46

Thanks kemp hun, I dont think its on ancestry, Penny has looked.

I think someone has found his death although not sure......


How will i tell the kids that their Dad didnt care enough to say their grandad died?

caz xx

KempinaPartyhat

KempinaPartyhat Report 31 Jul 2008 19:50

Tell them straight hun .....you know how .............

But you must be sure first ...if its the same gran dad send for the death certificate ............

Bobtanian

Bobtanian Report 31 Jul 2008 20:04

I wasnt told when either of mine died,
grandad went first, Nan went just over a year later........was told when it was too late.......
Bob

Maria

Maria Report 31 Jul 2008 20:08

Hi Caz.

Has someone already found the record for you? I've got findmypast if you need a lookup.

If he has died, Kemp's right - you have to tell them as honestly, but as gently of course, as you can. You'll find the right words.

Maria xxx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 20:10

Thanks Bob, Carrie, Broggy, Kemp,


My ex lives in the same town, he has changed his phone number but i feel like going round, my kids will be hurt, they were kept out of his whole families life, Im so angry,


Caz xx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 20:15

Thanks carrie,


My older 3 kids loved their grandparents, then they were cut off by their dad and his nasty wife.Never taken to visit, but tonight Josh said he really wanted contact,


Caz xxx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 20:17

Please, has anyone got access to 192 and can look for me?


Caz xxx

MarionfromScotland

MarionfromScotland Report 31 Jul 2008 20:18

Aww,thats a shame. Must be hard for families when there is a marriage break up.
I hope it all works out for him :))

Marion

Lindy

Lindy Report 31 Jul 2008 20:55

Wish I could help you Caz, so am sending a hug instead.

(((((((((( HUGS ))))))))))

Lindy xx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 20:57

Thanks Marion, it is awful.

Karen, thanks ive put one up,

Mac im so sorry, i hurt for my kids, love to you,

Lindy, thanks so much,


Caz xxx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 31 Jul 2008 21:04

Thankyou for a beautiful story Jackie, it breaks your heart when your kids hurt,


Caz xxx