General Chat

Tina, so many of us have been there love.
You are going to look back and wonder what the h*** you cried for.

I promise you.

You are going to be so happy in your new life.
Just give it time.
Good luck love.
Deanna XXX

True story,Tina.
My sister's husband ran off with her so called best friend from work. 6 months later he came crawling back,realised that it had been a mistake,& asked my sister to take him back again.She said "No way!!"
& sent him packing.Eventually she met a lovely new guy,lived with him for quite a while,& married him.They are very happy,he treats her like a queen,
& respects her.Her first husband did her a giant favour by walking out on her,& realised what he had lost when it was too late.You are well rid of that man.
Enjoy your new life,spoil & pamper yourself,you
deserve it!

XX Margot XX

Been thinking about you Tina, how's it going?

Time to get that new hairdo and those new clothes now, show him what he's missing!

Good luck,Tina.Remember that American President's wife (I forget her name) who said that a woman is like a teabag-it's only when she's in hot water that she finds how strong she is.You are hurting now,but you're well rid of the B*****d.You are worth 10 of him,and you are stronger than you realise.Enjoy the rest of your new life without him.
Take care, ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

XX MargotXX

I know who is the winner in this TIna.....it's you although you may not think you are at the moment. It takes time, it's not easy, but you will get there in the end and you will consider yorself so lucky to be rid of him.
Don't let him think for a minute that you are sad about him leaving. Smile, look radiantly happy and give the impresion you are SO releived he's gone.......whatever turmoil you're gong through on the inside!!!
THis is the start of a new life for you. Grasp it, enjoy it, and don't give him a second glance.
It will get better, I promise.

K x

Tina, I wish you the very very best as you start a new exciting life. As one door closes another one opens.

God bless

Tina xxxxx

You will get through this,and the great guys and girls on here will give you so much support, I have been where you are and it took me many years to trust again, but 9 years on I married again and next year it's our silver wedding .

Good luck and take care

Pam

Tina...when my ex moved out...I was at work, it was done before I got home. It was the scariest moment in my life as I approached the house wondering if he had taken everything and left me with nothing at all.

He didn't, and the first evening, though strange, was full of relief that at last it was over.

I then got a tin of paint, and over the next couple of weeks, painted the dining room in the colour I wanted, not the one he had insisted on...and proved myself right LOL. Everyone loved sitting in my dining room after that!

New life, new future for you now Tina. It's a time of re-building, of laying the foundations of your future plans. Don't look back, keep looking forward.

This the start of a new life for you
Good luck


Barrie

Hi Tina,

let's hope he soon finds out that the grass really is not greener, especially when he has the attitude to deal with on a long term basis. At least he has done you one favour by removing her.

Mmm crumble sounded lovely.

Ann
Glos

wishing you a happy future Tina
God bless xx

Tina,A little time on your own you might not enjoy for a couple of weeks,but i bet in the long run bet you want to be on your own.No-one to tell you when and what and jump.NOW if this does not come true and you still need a person i have the perfect male you can have as i want to be my own person.Just let me know and i will send him off to you by special delivery.Anyway Tina thinking of you and i am off to Essex records office soon as that where i spend most of my life.Try and join me one day there Annie

Hi T-M - hope you have a good weekend - the beginning of 'your new life'. I know how it feels - I've now survived 13 years of my own life. Best wishes to you and your daughter. Jx

Lots of positive thoughts coming your way Tina, you take care of yourself and hope the house gets finished soon so he doesn't have to come round much more.
Crumble sounds lovely, any left over? just a little maybe? lol
love
Lizxxx

you know everyone is always here for you Tina and wishes you well and your daughter - must be awful for her too

Ann XXX

bless ya ....this is where your new life begins....and theres goes downhill.....want some popcorn.lol

Take care hun, I was thinking of you today...xx

Thank you all for your lovely replies. He had gone before I got home from work... a cowardly act by all accounts, but I think I was actually relieved.
Daughter has spent the evening moving her stuff into another bedroom and I have made an apple and rhubarb crumble... all so very relaxed.

Thank you again.

Tina x

Thinking of you Tina.xx

Dear Tina

Your strength will grow for each day that he is gone hun.

I know you must be devastated but you don't need a wombat like that in your life

and rest assured he will come off worse in the long run - what goes around DOES come around!!!

Take care (((hugs))) xxx