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If you are caring for someone...
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Sharron | Report | 5 Jan 2013 10:01 |
People like Mr Daff are the real carers.They do proper caring.I am just a facilitator. |
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BrianW | Report | 5 Jan 2013 10:31 |
My BiL who is Downs, 47 but with a pre-school mental age, lives with us. |
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Sharron | Report | 5 Jan 2013 10:43 |
Does he go to a day centre or anything like that Brian? |
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JustJohn | Report | 5 Jan 2013 11:04 |
I feel a bit like an intruder even looking at this thread, but it is lovely and very heart-warming. All these people who need or have needed help are very special and, it seems, very loved. However difficult it is, it seems love conquers all and you soldier on till someone tells you that you have no strength left and, if you don't let go, it will badly affect your own health. Respite care must have its own worries. |
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GinN | Report | 5 Jan 2013 11:39 |
Thanks, John. |
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Sharron | Report | 5 Jan 2013 11:57 |
Have you ever had much patience with him Lynda? If not,why would you expect to have it now? You are still the same people. |
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MrDaff | Report | 5 Jan 2013 13:01 |
@GiN: Daff had those side restraints on the bed when in hospital - she climbed over them and took a tumble (cut lip, black eye). The other patients in the Ward couldn't get to her in time to stop it and hit the panic button, but it was too late, over she went! |
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 5 Jan 2013 13:13 |
l have just listened to the words and l cant stop crying , just got sister on the phone she coming roundl just want to hug her . |
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BrendafromWales | Report | 5 Jan 2013 13:21 |
I too remember Daff so well.I didn't post so much from 2009 much as I was full time carer,I was a carer from 2006 but was so much worse as time went on. |
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Merlin | Report | 5 Jan 2013 13:31 |
Brenda, If you have a "Hospice" in your area,perhaps they would find a use for them ,as they mostly rely on charity I would think they would be most grateful .**M**. |
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BrendafromWales | Report | 5 Jan 2013 14:20 |
Merlin, |
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MrDaff | Report | 5 Jan 2013 14:40 |
Brenda, have you tried McMillan's ? Even if they won't take them, they may be able to advise on an alternative from of disposal? |
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GinN | Report | 5 Jan 2013 15:54 |
Just seen your above posting, Sharron. He drove my Mam crazy when she was alive, so I knew just what to expect after she died, but at least he is a bit more gracious to me than he was to her. |
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Sharron | Report | 5 Jan 2013 16:06 |
Brenda,I did the trying to get rid of hundreds of leg bags routine.I had not realized that seven night bags equal one leg bag and filled the cupboard. |
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BrianW | Report | 5 Jan 2013 16:23 |
I had bags and catheters after my prostate cancer op and the clinic at the hospital was happy to take bake the unused excess when I no longer needed them. |
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BrendafromWales | Report | 5 Jan 2013 20:29 |
Thank you for your replies about disposal of items...I will have another go! |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 5 Jan 2013 21:33 |
Mr Daff a better YT is |
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Wend | Report | 5 Jan 2013 22:00 |
Thankyou too Uzzi xxx |
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MrDaff | Report | 5 Jan 2013 22:48 |
Uzzi, yes, I think a better recording ....... tk u <3 |
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Suzanne | Report | 5 Jan 2013 23:44 |
you should all give yourselfs a medal. |
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