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Are you scared of the dentist.( Updated again )

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Cynthia Report 17 Jan 2013 19:32

Glad it went well AnnMarie..... :-D


UzziInSunshine Report 17 Jan 2013 18:30

yes *shakes*


Janet Report 17 Jan 2013 17:07

Glad you got through your appointment ok AnnMarie,.... the towels will last longer than the cream cake-j


BarbinSGlos Report 17 Jan 2013 15:43

Thanks for your kind words :-)

After bad dentists and abcesses etc I have only got 4 teeth of my own and 3 are loose. But not going just yet. But with my dentures ( sh dont tell anyone) I have the best of smiles LOL


AnnMarieG Report 17 Jan 2013 15:30

Thank you AnninGlos. :-) :-)
Sorry Barb, meant to say how sorry i was for your poor nephew. What was I moaning about. :-(


AnninGlos Report 17 Jan 2013 15:26

Ooh Barb, your poor nephew, that is such a painful cancer I believe. And then to also have to have ten teeth out. Poor man.

Anne Marie, well done, it sounds as though the dentist will look after you well.


AnnMarieG Report 17 Jan 2013 15:12

Thank you all so much for your posts.
Dentist seen today and he was so, so nice. I explained how I felt and he couldnt have been any nicer.I have to have 3 out after seeing the hygenist for a really good clean up.(Dreading that ) but feel so much better at having braved it at last.
Janet, did treat myself today after going, not with a cream cake but with 2 new hand towels!!!!!!!I really do know how to live dont I. much better than cake for my expanding waist
Thank you all for your encouragement and comments. :-) :-) :-)
:-D :-D :-D This will be after all my


BarbinSGlos Report 16 Jan 2013 18:49

Just had a call from my nephew. 50 yrs old and has cancer of the throat and mouth. Has had several ops already and is doing ok.
He went to the Dental Hospital yesterday and I nearly fainted when he told me they have to take 10 teeth out to continue treatment. He just takes it all in his stride. Well I suppose he has to. What courage :-)


JackBunion Report 16 Jan 2013 18:36

I had a full set of teeth last August. Now, like Dizzi, but for different reasons, down to 8 with one loose. Who will be the next Genes member to knock on my front door? (knees quivering as I type)


SpanishEyes Report 16 Jan 2013 18:31

Terrified is the only word that is near to how I feel. Haven't been for years, have many teeth that are broken and at times they hurt, I might be brave in September when in UK..............


PatinCyprus Report 16 Jan 2013 18:08

Ann Marie,

I was a dental nurse in the WRAF for 5 years. On my first posting after training I went to an RAF camp with a few US marines on it. One who was huge, looked like a rugby player, solid muscle and had to duck to come in the door. He had been in Vietnam and hadn't had his teeth checked for a while and had toothache. He sat in the chair and promptly fainted. Also remember an Irish Ranger who had to be sedated everytime he came to the surgery even for an inspection and x-rays. He was a big man as well. These were 2 really tough guys.

As you see you are not the only 1 at all. As 1 who's seen all shapes, sizes and both sexes quake, you are not unusual at all. Most fear the dentist it's just some manage to hide it better.

The sooner you go the quicker it'll be over. Go every 6 months then you'll have less to do each time.



DIZZI Report 16 Jan 2013 18:06


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Carol 430181 Report 16 Jan 2013 17:46

I personally would rather have a baby than go to the dentist, lucky I have really good teeth.

Carol :-D :-D


Janet Report 16 Jan 2013 17:35

You have my every sympathy. I go every six months and nothing changes. If my dentist wasn't taking my money I don't think he would have me in the surgery. I remember going to one when I was seventeen. He said to me that if I didn't sit still I might as well go, so I said 'good morning' and went. Eventually when I was nineteen I got one to listen and I promised him because he managed to sort out my teeth, I would always go but it doesn't get any easier.

I have only had one tooth out now in over 45 years because it started aching and the dentist couldn't relieve the pain. After six weeks I had to have an anaesthetic to knock me out. I remember sitting quietly in the chair, they put a thingy on my finger to listen to my pulse, it was gently beating away,then the needle went into the back of my hand and the last thing I remember was my pulse going off the scale and then waking up. ..shudders.... but hey....well done for making an appointment . Just think how elated you will feel when its all over. Promise yourself a a cream cake -lol-jl


AnninGlos Report 16 Jan 2013 17:27

We did have a dentist that I liked very much, had him for over ten years, he left suddenly (apparently under a cloud but don't know why). That was over two years ago and in the past two and a half yesrs we have had four dentists, a couple taken on on short contracts, one female we both disliked intensely who seems to have been given the push and now this young lad who has been at the paractice a couple of months. He seems really nice and is very gentle. It is very easy to be put off by an aggressive dentist, I speak from experience.


Andrew Report 16 Jan 2013 17:17

I absolutely hate the dentist. I didn't go for years until severe toothache forced me. Dentist wanted to pull the tooth but I wouldn't let him and managed to save it. Its now playing up again....but I still won't go.



AnnMarieG Report 16 Jan 2013 17:15

I must have been very unlucky in my 'choice' of dentists in the past as I have had some pretty horrid ones. The only good one left the practice i was at.Hopefully this time I will be lucky.tommorrow will tell the tale.!!!!!


Cynthia Report 16 Jan 2013 17:11

I must be very fortunate as I overcame my fear a long time ago. I used to be a nervous wreck with the dentist we had years back but, times and procedures have changed and now I hardly think about it.

We have had this man now for almost 30 years, we go as a joint appointment and, whilst one is being dealt with, the other sits on the sofa and chats away to the dentist. He also has a TV in the ceiling above the chair so that the patient can watch as the work is done.

The procedures are incredibly improved now AnnMarie and even an injection doesn't hurt - just a slight scratch feeling.

I do hope you find your appointment to be less traumatic than you fear.


AnninGlos Report 16 Jan 2013 17:10

Barb, speak to your doctor, he/she may well give you a seditive to take before hand. Whereas I am nervous, yours and Anne MarieG sounds more like a real phobia.


AnnMarieG Report 16 Jan 2013 17:00

Thank you Lesley for your comments. <3
Barbinsglos,Thank goodness I'm not the only one, although I dont wish it on anyone else. :-( :-(