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Murphy's Law for Genealogists

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'Emma' Report 5 Feb 2013 13:12

Know that feeling :-D


OneFootInTheGrave Report 5 Feb 2013 13:09

Just love this hobby :-|

Having spent the last 50 years working, a lot of it under pressure, I always managed to retain my cool and seldom lost the plot or got confused.

Then a few months months ago I was persuaded to take this up as a hobby and now I think I am slowly going round the bend as I often lose the plot and regularly get :-S


'Emma' Report 5 Feb 2013 12:06

I have Donalds, William or Alexander mainly with a James thrown in
and Ann seems to have been the popular girls name amongst them.
But my bug bear is the Nerrlies, Alexander my grandfather and his father
also Alexander and his father well who knows cause for decades I can't
find them :-|
Don't you just love this hobby or as I now call it a lifetimes work :-) are you Sue, well I hope.x


JustJohn Report 5 Feb 2013 11:50

I wish sometimes I could go back to early 19th century and attend some of these baptisms - particularly for all my JONES lines.

When the Vicar said "Mr & Mrs Jones, what is the name of the baby?" I would have rushed to the front.

And, just as the mother or father formed the name "Thomas" or "John" in their mouth and were about to speak, I would have blurted out "Methusaleh" or "Boanerges" :-0 :-D :-D


Maryanna Report 5 Feb 2013 10:56

More than likely Det, unfortunately too many if his genes rubbed off onto my Dad !!!!!

M ;-)


+++DetEcTive+++ Report 5 Feb 2013 10:49

If he was spending time with each family, he didn't need to worry about calling them the wrong names ;-)


Maryanna Report 5 Feb 2013 10:47

Oh yes, and my Dads grandfather, ( the "Irish " one ) changed his name at least three times. On varying census, when he wasn't in India, gives his place of birth as, Scotland, Ireland, there's a surprise, Somerset and London, he was born in Paddington. Each different place of birth coincides with a name change, lucky his children were more honest, as are his army records.

His father (scottish) was just as bad and seems to have found himself five wives and then called all the children' from each marriage by the same name, including my gt Grandad and his sister. Perhaps he was being Irish when he was married to their mother. Although some died he had two sons and three daughters with the same names at one point. M


SueMaid Report 5 Feb 2013 09:44

My father told me that his paternal grandfather turned to some "strange" religion - he was right and I found loads of them in the NonConformist records on Ancestry but all they did was become Baptists - hardly strange :-)


Maryanna Report 5 Feb 2013 09:39

My Dad told me all his Mothers side were Irish, I have found that they started off in Scotland but by 1750 were all in India and stayed there until the early 20th c.

I don't have one Smith in my tree.

One branch liked their Samuels, another thought it would be easiest to stick with William and another lot were very partial to John.

The most fun I have had is with Coles in Devon, the nearest to Smith it seems in that part of the country.

Oh as well as the disappearing gt gt grandmother, why did my gt grandad never mention his fourteen siblings ? M


SueMaid Report 5 Feb 2013 09:29

I've got Johnsons and that's bad enough. I just can't understand why one branch of the family named all their boys William, Thomas Edward with a few Johns and James. Another branch decided Amos and Matthew were nice names and I've had a job deciding who were sons and who were cousins in my direct lines.

DET - I had such trouble finding my maternal great grandmother's second husband. When I finally found him my mother said "well that would be right because my Auntie Lou was a Corbett" :-0


LadyScozz Report 5 Feb 2013 09:16

I've just got Smiths, not the posh ones :-D I've also got Smitham & Naismith/Naysmith...... some of them were recorded as Smith, just to make research easier.

My cousin is convinced that our Clark branch are descended from monks! Lower order monks (who were allowed to marry) who were clerks to the other monks.

I know that one of my ancestors was a bishop....... that's enough! :-0


Wend Report 5 Feb 2013 07:27

No problem with the spelling of the name Scozz? Not with my Smiths . . . . .

Smith, Smyth or Smythe - take your pick :-S



LadyScozz Report 5 Feb 2013 06:47


My Great-grandfather's name is Thomas Smith, and his father's name is......... you guessed it, John Smith.

John & his wife Margaret had 11 children, two of their daughters married Smiths, who were brothers, James & John.

At least with this lot, there wasn't a problem with the spelling of the name. The rest of my tree makes up for it.



OneFootInTheGrave Report 5 Feb 2013 06:34

The different spellings of ancestors' names is definitely a nightmare :-(

My name is Clusker and I have found numerous variations while tracing my ancestors, a few of these are, Clousker, Cluskie, Mac/McClusker, Mac/McCluskie, Mac/McClaskey, Mac/McClaskie, and Mac/McCloskey, they start of correctly in Ireland as Clusker, arrive in Canada as say McClusker then move to America where they appear as say McCloskey :-S

Many things can be confusing but this genealogy lark for me, takes the biscuit :-)


+++DetEcTive+++ Report 5 Feb 2013 00:40

"I could have told you that" . Have you been eavesdropping on mother-in-law?


SueMaid Report 4 Feb 2013 22:20

But of course Wend :-D


Wend Report 4 Feb 2013 22:20

Aw, Sue, but we is still 2 classy laydees, eh :-D :-D :-D


SueMaid Report 4 Feb 2013 22:15

I have no noteworthy ancestors either, Wend :-(


Wend Report 4 Feb 2013 22:13

SueM :-D

Spelling of European ancestors' names - YES!

Only noteworthy ones in my tree are from 'im indoors' side :-P

Actually, finding out that I'm quite a mongrel has been a shock :-0


SueMaid Report 4 Feb 2013 22:12

OH has Williams marrying Williams :-(

Here's some more.

The 37 volume, sixteen thousand page history of your county of origin isn't indexed.

You learn that your great aunt's executor just sold her life's collection of family genealogical materials to a flea market dealer "London."

Ink fades and paper deteriorates at a rate inversely proportional to the value of the data recorded.