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Do you think the Judge is right?
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Sharron | Report | 16 Feb 2013 19:37 |
Downs is a chromosome thing isn't it? I used to have a friend who had Downs syndrome and she was eventually living in a home where I would visit her. |
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PollyinBrum | Report | 16 Feb 2013 19:16 |
It is really very difficult to say, but really just stop and think about what would you do if it was your child in these circumstances? My sons step daughter “E” has learning difficulties. My DIL and my son have talked to her about boy friends and explained what can happen in a relationship. She has had a couple of boyfriends at school but nothing serious, they have always encouraged her to bring all of her friends home and are very aware of where she is going, who she is with and what she is doing. She is so honest, and when asked she will just tell it as it is. My son & DIL are loving, generous and responsible parents they both adore “E”, as does the rest of the family. |
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BrianW | Report | 16 Feb 2013 17:21 |
Having pondered on this one I believe that any decision should be based on the mental age of the subject and not the chronological age. |
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ChAoTicintheNewYear | Report | 16 Feb 2013 16:48 |
I'm another 'don't know' on this one. |
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BrianW | Report | 16 Feb 2013 16:43 |
Whilst it would depend on the severity of the Downs, if my brother-in-law who lives with us were female then a sterilisation would be a definite choice. |
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Kay???? | Report | 16 Feb 2013 16:38 |
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Sharron | Report | 16 Feb 2013 16:14 |
Part of the basis of common law is precedent. It is one of the things the judge had to take into account when coming to his decision,as do all judges in all decisions. |
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Caroline | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:44 |
Whilst it is a very difficult situation to say the least I'm behind the parents on this one I'm afraid. |
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Muffyxx | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:28 |
Absolutely agree but it appears even her close family aren't allowed to make that decision for her...... |
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Guinevere | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:28 |
Exactly, Muffy, the judge isn't going to be the one left holding the baby. The parents are acting out of love for their daughter, they know what she can and cannot cope with far better than a total stranger. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:28 |
I can see two sides to this muffy |
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Muffyxx | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:17 |
ooops..sorry you were talking of the one in the village...just re read.. |
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Muffyxx | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:17 |
But Joy there isn't a baby...that's the whole point..and her parents want to make sure for her sake that it stays that way as they are clearly going to be the ones who will have to pick up the pieces should she fall pregnant. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:13 |
some of the Downs People are driving tractors |
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Sharron | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:07 |
What a strange place to be doing that good job though. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 16 Feb 2013 14:01 |
we have a wonderful village near us at Danby called Botton village |
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♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ | Report | 16 Feb 2013 13:59 |
Anaesthesia complications are more likely to occur in individuals with Down syndrome than people without, so a non surgical way could be far safer for her. |
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Muffyxx | Report | 16 Feb 2013 13:23 |
I wonder if the judge will be helping with the child care arrangements,cost of counselling, upkeep or any other issue should the contraception fail....... |
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DazedConfused | Report | 16 Feb 2013 13:21 |
Whilst the concerns for the girls health both mental and physical are of great concern for all. |
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Sharron | Report | 16 Feb 2013 13:14 |
Most forms of contraception are able to fail. |