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Welcome to the Genes Reunited community boards!

The Genes Reunited community is made up of millions of people with similar interests. Discover your family history and make life long friends along the way.
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The Genes community will go out of their way to help you, so don’t be shy about asking for help.

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Member Since: January 2007 Posts: 2,823 Send Message	wisechild	Report	1 Mar 2013 13:24
	Liz. More like Kevin the teenager to be honest, . Thought I´d seen the last of teenage tantrums when my daughters left home. Tess. Thanks for your support. sad thing is, he knows that he is clinically depressed, because the doctor told him so 12 months ago, but he refuses all treatment & says he is dealing with it. He´s not!!!! & to be honest, neither am I.
Member Since: July 2008 Posts: 3,885 Send Message	PollyinBrum	Report	1 Mar 2013 10:45
Member Since: July 2008 Posts: 3,885 Send Message	If you allow yourself to become a doormat people will step on you. Kick the mat away. Good luck Jean you are doing just fine. :-D :-D
Member Since: November 2010 Posts: 32 Send Message	hazel	Report	1 Mar 2013 10:35
Member Since: November 2010 Posts: 32 Send Message	yes, it's time for us to learn to be our own person! my precious daughter suffered for many years, thankfully she is coming out of that dark tunnel, but I kept saying, think, ME, ME, ME, and now we laugh as I call her mimi, haha. don't allow yourself to be a doormat.!
Member Since: February 2005 Posts: 32,477 Send Message	Purple *^Sparkly^* Diamond	Report	1 Mar 2013 06:08
	What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, Jean, so hang on in and things will get better. Wisechild, I empathise with you, I have one here who if he doesn't grasp a situation or whatever, or I don't agree with him when he is being bigoted and racist, I get the temper tantrum, it's like a child kicking off, but I can't stick him on the naughty step, much as I'd love to lol It's his house so I can't tell him to leave but one of these days..... Strength to all with problems Lizxx
Member Since: April 2004 Posts: 46,007 Send Message	SylviaInCanada	Report	1 Mar 2013 04:36
	attagirl!!! keep on thinking "ME. It's time for ME!" xxx
	Researching: My brother, photo taken in September 1991 just a couple of weeks before he died. ............................................................ To help us and to get better results, please post as much detail as you can, especially name, date(s) and place. Also say what you already know.
Member Since: September 2006 Posts: 255 Send Message	Jean	Report	1 Mar 2013 01:40
	i will survive and get through this stage. it will pass in time. and i WILL move on. have had worse things to cope with in my life.
Member Since: May 2003 Posts: 20,600 Send Message	maggiewinchester	Report	1 Mar 2013 01:06
	Good on you Jean - we want more ME. It's not selfish, it's normal and called survival. <3 <3 <3
	Researching: Gg gran Amelia - Suffolk side
Member Since: September 2006 Posts: 255 Send Message	Jean	Report	1 Mar 2013 01:03
	maggie i will. it wont be easy but i am determind to get my life back. have wasted too much of time doing my best for a certain person. ME is the first thing i think about when i wake up each day.
Member Since: May 2003 Posts: 20,600 Send Message	maggiewinchester	Report	1 Mar 2013 00:32
	Jean, think of YOU. Find your own happiness. It's there :-D :-D <3
	Researching: Gg gran Amelia - Suffolk side
Member Since: September 2006 Posts: 255 Send Message	Jean	Report	1 Mar 2013 00:23
	yes i have had a lots of support on here from people i dont even know, and i do thank everyone of you. i sent the cheque to him...he can never say that im a gold digger. i have allways payed my way....and yes i will survive i will get stronger as each day passes. he walked..hope he will find his own happiness.
Member Since: October 2004 Posts: 2,736 Send Message	TessAkaBridgetTheFidget	Report	28 Feb 2013 23:31
	Wisechild, my heart goes out to you. Don't let him stop you from expressing your own opinion about things. Stay strong and remember that a lot of your friends suport you. Take care Tess <3 <3
	Researching: Woodhouse and Trilloe from Herefordshire; Lockyear and Date from Somerset, Thomas and Edwards from Glamorganshire and Monmouthshire, also Argyll, Tipperary, Limerick, Cork
Member Since: October 2004 Posts: 2,736 Send Message	TessAkaBridgetTheFidget	Report	28 Feb 2013 23:28
	Jean, your mantra should be "I have the power!" because you do have the power to change your own life. Don't let anyone take it away from you. You have already decided to ive your life as you want to live it. Go for it, in both big and small ways. <3
	Researching: Woodhouse and Trilloe from Herefordshire; Lockyear and Date from Somerset, Thomas and Edwards from Glamorganshire and Monmouthshire, also Argyll, Tipperary, Limerick, Cork
Member Since: December 2003 Posts: 8,423 Send Message	ChrisofWessex	Report	28 Feb 2013 22:55
	Jean you should have kept it - you earned it. Your signature tune from now shall be 'I shall survive'.
Member Since: September 2006 Posts: 255 Send Message	Jean	Report	28 Feb 2013 22:22
	frank, hes stayed away, had no phone calls. he will be waiting for me to ring him, in the past i did ring him to ask about his health. but that wont be happening this time he will have to cope alone with his health. i found some money he had left, have wrote a cheque, posted it to him. so he has nothing to call round for.
Member Since: January 2006 Posts: 8,765 Send Message	Frank	Report	28 Feb 2013 20:19
	Jean, Has he stayed away, and no phone calls, If he does just ignore him. He will go away.
	Researching: Coopersale,Epping, Essex earls barton,Northampton woodford bridge,essex Canning town, Bethnal Green.
Member Since: September 2006 Posts: 255 Send Message	Jean	Report	26 Feb 2013 21:11
	thanks everyone. i have plenty of things lined up, untill the weather warms up. i will then be able to spend more time in my garden. freedom !!!
Member Since: December 2003 Posts: 4,002 Send Message	VIVinHERTS	Report	26 Feb 2013 21:09
	Enjoy your freedom Jean :-)
	Researching: Researching Tucker in London/Australia. Cliff in U.S.A. Fuller, Eaton & Sa(u)nders(on) in Bedfordshire. Turner, Morley, Blythe & Webb in Cambridgeshire/Suffolk. Want in Hertfordshire.
Member Since: October 2012 Posts: 11,197 Send Message	GinN	Report	26 Feb 2013 21:00
	All the best for your future, Jean. It's a brave decision you've made. Now, it's time for YOU, so look after yourself, and go for it. You deserve it!! ;-)
	Researching: Anything and everything that takes my fancy.
Member Since: January 2004 Posts: 9,249 Send Message	Sue In Yorkshire.	Report	26 Feb 2013 19:56
	Go for it Jean, You can go where you want,do what you want and have no-one to answer to.It's good living on your own I have done it for 10 yrss. Treat yourself to a new Spring/Summer out fit.get a hair cut and tiou will feel FREE,FREE. Yeah. <3 <3 <3 <3
Member Since: December 2005 Posts: 14,670 Send Message	Kay????	Report	26 Feb 2013 19:41
	Once you refuse the emotional blackmail that I'm sure will come,,,,,,,,,Put a notice up on your fridge,,,in block capitals... ***Jean is a SINGLE person and free of any milestones.***. Good luck what ever the future holds.

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