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Just who do children think they are these days.
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ZZzzz | Report | 7 Apr 2013 22:07 |
Our 30 year old teenage child has gone absolutely berserk over us, his parents not getting divorced, this is because we have got over the problems we had and are happy now, however said child is angry with us because WE have caused said child angst. |
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♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ | Report | 7 Apr 2013 23:26 |
I would have thought he would be pleased for you both, I am. :-) |
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Rambling | Report | 7 Apr 2013 23:36 |
Maybe he felt that if the problems were able to be resolved you should have kept quiet about them to him and he is now angry mainly as a 'reaction' to perhaps thinking he would have to choose which parent to 'support' and he found that thought really stressful? |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 8 Apr 2013 07:20 |
My son is 30 and much as I still feel protective toward him, he is now an adult and has had to face lots of things with me and his own problems too. |
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wisechild | Report | 8 Apr 2013 07:26 |
My 38 year old rang me last summer to say she was getting re married, but that she wasn´t inviting me & my husband, because her father & his wife were going & she didn´t want an "atmosphere" on her day. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 8 Apr 2013 07:37 |
That's sad Wisechild, what an awful thing to do, and then to put the phone down and not speak to you again - words fail me! |
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wisechild | Report | 8 Apr 2013 07:47 |
That´s what really bugs me. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 8 Apr 2013 07:52 |
I guessed you must have brought your daughter up, so for her to turn this way is doubly hurtful. |
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ZZzzz | Report | 9 Apr 2013 21:17 |
I never thought in a million years that he would behave like that (a lot more than I will say on here) he will find his stuff on the front lawn, I've told him and he needs to get it before the dustbin men do. Breaks my heart, but maybe it will be his wakeup call. |
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KittytheLearnerCook | Report | 9 Apr 2013 22:35 |
Children, no matter how old will usually blame us parents for something or other. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 10 Apr 2013 04:48 |
Hope he will learn his lesson and respect you and his Dad, and when he has calmed down and embraced his independence, he will become close to you both again. |
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Jean | Report | 11 Apr 2013 00:15 |
Good Luck to you both for giving it another try. Its your life at the end of the day, not his. I do think as we get older we see things in a different light. When the time comes to call it a day, you will know. I wish you much happiness for the future <3 < |
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ZZzzz | Report | 11 Apr 2013 22:00 |
Thank you all for your comments, I have to say now that other family say it is just between hubby and me, some think it strange but are happy for us, son is the only one that has a problem with it. |
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Kay???? | Report | 11 Apr 2013 23:01 |
Sounds a bit like Perry, :-D :-D, |
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ZZzzz | Report | 11 Apr 2013 23:33 |
We think he is Kevin the teenager personified (but real age is 30) we also think he is ashamed of us because we are on a council estate although we bought our house, have lived in it for 31years, maybe he is Mrs Bucket too. He lives in a flat in a posh area of Surrey where he struggles to pay rent and live but has never wanted us to go there, mmmmm keeping up appearances, it all ads up to him being a snob me thinks. |
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ann | Report | 11 Apr 2013 23:59 |
I do hope he is not ashamed of you. You have given him life and where he is today. Without boasting my hubby a company director we own a detached house and 2 beautiful cars. All paid for. I have 4 children and 3 of them are council tenants. Money should not matter. We are a family xx |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 12 Apr 2013 00:08 |
Wisechild, that is so out of order. |
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ZZzzz | Report | 12 Apr 2013 00:31 |
My Dads side are all ag labs back to the 1700s and there's no airs and graces, Dad is the only one not to retire from farming, he was a builder for many years, Mums side were wealthy business people, no airs and graces there either, hubby's side working class and travellers, perhaps that is his problem, not enough posh people for him to boast about. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 12 Apr 2013 00:40 |
Zzzz - he's 30 - that's his problem :-D |
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