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Sharron

Sharron Report 8 May 2013 08:47

Give her chance to get used to having a mother in a wheelchair.

When Fred had his stroke we had the six months he was in hospital to get used to the new shape of the family.

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 8 May 2013 08:44

I MAY BE LIKE THIS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE,WHAT CHANCE DO I HAVE EVEN BIRTHDAYS IM NOT INCLUDED OR INVITED ROUND IM LEFT ON MY OWN

SORRY IM DOING A POOR ME

Lyndi

Lyndi Report 8 May 2013 08:37

Sometimes the health problems are just too close for comfort - it is easier to cope when love doesn't get in the way, if that makes sense.

Kitty has worded it much better than I can :-)

I feel for you Dizzi xx

KittytheLearnerCook

KittytheLearnerCook Report 8 May 2013 08:30

Maybe she finds it hard to cope with your health problems Dizzi.

Some cope but others don't.

I am sure she loves you, but you have to respect her wishes or risk pushing her away.

One of our daughters couldn't cope with my husband illness a few years ago, she still loves him, but can't handle illness or disability.................it's just how it is sometimes.

xx

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 8 May 2013 08:17

HOW CAN YOU LOVE YOUR CHILD BUT AT TIMES DISLIKE THEM SO MUCH SHE MAKES YOU CRY,
MY DAUGHTER HAS REFUSED TO EVER TAKE ME OUT IN MY WHEELCHAIR,HER MAIN EXCUSE IT WONT FIT IN HER PEOPLE CARRIER (IT WILL),SHE KNOWS I CANT WALK,SHE IS EMBARRASED IM SURE,AND SHE HAS REALLY UPSET ME,