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Having a moan before I pull my hair out!
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:07 |
RR...l feel for you, but it sounds to me as though you have to be cruel to be kind. |
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:10 |
RR...sounds like she may have a memory prob too, if she thinking no one has visited for ages etc.....you can have memory tests organised via the DR and if you are concerned you can ring her Dr> |
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Rambling | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:12 |
Sorry Kay cross posted with you there, I think age concern is the answer, it's just difficult as the move has to come from her, although I have known her all my life I'm not related and feel that because she is more my mum's age than mine it isn't really for me to tell her what to do ( much as I might like to lol). |
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Rambling | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:24 |
Jude, she doesn't have memory problems I'm pretty sure, what she is really saying is 'I have no family' and there is unfortunately nothing that can change that. She does see people and she does remember doing so, but they're not 'close' and there's probably an element of 'if I say I don't see anyone I get more sympathy', which sounds a bit harsh of me but is true I think. |
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Susan10146857 | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:51 |
I have no sympathy for her whatsoever Rose. I had an old neighbour like that. he ran his son down for not visiting but it turned out that whenever he phoned up said son bemoaning the fact that he hadn't seen anyone in weeks and the son rushed over to see him, he was busy with visitors. |
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 14 Jun 2013 18:55 |
RR....mmm this is all to familiar to me with my sister. She does sort of have memory probs but when l have ago at her she remembers and does things on her own.!! |
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Kay???? | Report | 14 Jun 2013 19:04 |
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Rambling | Report | 14 Jun 2013 19:15 |
Ah well Susan , me and 'guilt trips' go together like strawberries and cream ;-) lol. |
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Rambling | Report | 14 Jun 2013 19:16 |
Thankyou Jude, :-) |
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~`*`Jude`*`~ | Report | 14 Jun 2013 19:41 |
RR...you must also think of yourself, l am now seeing the Dr and a counsellor, there are other issues for sister to deal with, but basically she is lonely but l can't do everything for her, or involve her in everything l do!....soooooo take care of number one:)) |
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