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It seems strange that you know the adoptive name of the child, but not, apparently, anything else.

Are you related to him?

Denise is/was tmarried to the couple's youngest son

Denise or her hubby should know about his elder adopted brother.

have you tried www.192.com for the area Denise ad her hubby lived at the time she reg the death of her FIL

Yes am related but he may not know he is adopted so don't know how to contact the said Denise as it can open a can of worms he might not appreciate.
Thought she was married to the younger brother but couldn't find the right middle name of John M? Don't know the marriage details due to that.
Couldn't find them in a divorce register and have her address at time of FIL death.
Not sure how to handle this now. Want to get younger brother marriage cert to help pull links together and then somehow find older brother. Hopefully if there was a Will it will give me more.
You are all so helpful thank you so much.

I did not write youngER.....I wrote youngEST

Why don't you go through the proper channels.............that way, there will be less risk of your doing real damage.

I am not going to do any damage that is why I won't be contacting the said Denise as am well aware of what can happen. I am going through 'proper' channels but as have no money to use all the expensive routes am doing the research myself while 'proper' channels do any contacting. But thanks for any help I have gleaned from this site.

private message sent as there was another son born in 1950..mistake made by transcriber on mothers maiden name...so Denise is his wife not the other brothers as 1st thought :-D

Did you also send the death reg in 2005 Fiona?

Denise is still living in the same property as she was with her husband

Fiona

That was what I was saying.....but the point was missed..........I thought my message was clear, but obviously not sufficiently so for some.