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Betty Joan Hamlyn

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Michael

Michael Report 8 Feb 2013 16:47

Looking to making some contact with my ' Stepfamily ' My research shows that Betty had two girls. Gillian and Susan Cross. I would love to get in touch and learn who I am.
Keith

PricklyHolly

PricklyHolly Report 8 Feb 2013 16:53

Sorry if this is your Betty.

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England & Wales, Death Index, 1916-2006
about Betty Joan Cross
Name: Betty Joan Cross
Birth Date: 30 Oct 1927
Date of Registration: May 1996
Age at Death: 68
Registration district: Hillingdon
Inferred County: Middlesex
Register Number: A28B
District and Subdistrict: 2361A
Entry number: 76

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 8 Feb 2013 17:13

The birth date given on that death record would be right for the birth of Betty J. Hamlyn:-


Name: HAMLYN, Betty J
Registration district: Uxbridge
County: Middlesex
Year of registration: 1927
Quarter of registration: Oct-Nov-Dec
Mother's maiden name: Pryor
Volume no: 3A
Page no: 105

Kath. x

Reggie

Reggie Report 8 Feb 2013 17:26

Not sure how step-relations can help your quest

You need your birth cert to find out 'who you are'

'Step-family' means that your father married Betty....................but Betty only married once............to Mr Cross

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 8 Feb 2013 17:26

Will send a pm with possible marriage for Susan.

Kath. x

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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 8 Feb 2013 18:51

Do Susan and Gillian know about you? It would appear unlikely.

Rose

Michael

Michael Report 9 Feb 2013 12:21

I am Keith Hamlyn and my mother was Betty J. Hamlyn, that is on my Birth Certificate. I was born in 1946, reg Bushey Herts. I was placed into care and fostered. I have a family of my own and I am very happy. I never knew my father.
My research, so far tells me my mother had two girls Susan and Gillian. They are both married.
My guess is, they do not know about me, why should they need to, we are nothing to each other.I would just like to know what my mother was like and to be able to look at a photo of her. I thank everyone for their comments and advice.
Bless you all. Keith

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 9 Feb 2013 12:32

You say why should your half sisters need to now about you but if you want info on your mum surely they would need to know you ?? Mean if you find their current addresses surely you would make some sort of contact.

It may be they were told about you ,you wont know unless you make contact or am I getting things wrong ??.


You could start with getting Betty,s death cert to see who the informant was.

Michael

Michael Report 9 Feb 2013 13:14

I guess I did not explain myself very well.When I said ' why should they know ' I meant that, ' maybe their mother thought it best not to or neccesary to tell her ' new ' family about her little boy.
I have no hang ups or grudges about anything or anybody. I would love to meet up with any of the family, if they wanted to meet up with me. I would understand if they did not want to rake up the past, but if only I had a picture of my mum.
Keith

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 9 Feb 2013 13:47

Have you looked for family of Betty. siblings etc . You may find family info in a round about way that will have family photos.

I sent you a marriage earlier for one of the girls by PM

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 9 Feb 2013 13:54

Would seem she was an only child on a birth search.

not seeing the parents marriage .maybe her mum had been married before.

Looks like you need Betty's birth cert for her parents names

Reggie

Reggie Report 10 Feb 2013 09:04

IF the marriage suggested for Susan is correct, she is on 192 (on the ER) up to 2011