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Sidney Lamont

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patchem Report 23 Mar 2013 20:07

I said absolutely nothing that justified my post being rr'd.
Cynthia is the most respectful and responsible and helpful person on these boards.
Jax and Reggie were not rude, and did not breach any guidelines.

Added: or my post of about 2 minutes ago.

Sorry, Johanna, there are some silly people out tonight.


Locator Report 23 Mar 2013 19:45

As for how many posts that is because I work by private message DER....

& have a life... :-)


Cynthia Report 23 Mar 2013 19:15

Spotted this thread.

May I just add Locater, I have spent the last 5 - 6 years sending messages to those who have not returned to their threads.

I have sent over 30,000 of them. The majority of them have replied, telling me that they are extremely grateful as they were expecting to receive an email in their inbox. Many admit to being new to the boards, elderly or unused to forums.

I only inform those who post on the Find Ancestors and Genealogy Chat board though, I do not inform those on Living Relatives by personal choice.

This seems to gives a clear indication that many people do NOT know how to find their way back

As for the duplication of advice - you seem to miss the point that not every helper on these boards has time to waste for something which has already been found by you. Just a little courtesy would go a long way.

It is a little strange that you are so good at giving advice on using these boards considering that you have just 11 posts to your name, whilst patchem, Reggie and jax have a grand total of 60,000 between them.



patchem Report 23 Mar 2013 18:20


I do not want to know what the delicate information is, I just wanted some indication of what you had sent.
It is not just me who is looking, possibly many others, which is why it helps if you mention e.g. address sent as found in bt online, or possible death found etc

As regards Johanna returning to the boards, anyone displaying common courtesy would do that. But if she thinks that all messages are going to be sent to her directly, she may believe that she does not need to return to the boards. That is why we usually indicate that there is information and discussion on the boards as well as any private message sent.


jax Report 23 Mar 2013 18:10

If Genes thought it was a good idea to sticky the post, they must want people to read it???

Helping and assisting??? all by private message then? or do you make a point in deleting all posts, changing your name and starting again?


Locator Report 23 Mar 2013 18:03

No of coarse not; far too long in the tooth, no more than you would read a post that begins with:

When you tie your shoe laces, or when you unzip your jacket...

One would get no where if one wasted time reading the obvious...

I much prefer to spend my time helping/assisting others....


jax Report 23 Mar 2013 17:17

You would be suprised how many people cannot find their way back to their threads and need guidance.

Finding a private message is a lot easier as GR send an email.

There is a stickied thread at the top of this board asking that helpers give some sort of indication to what they have sent....did you not bother to read it?


Locator Report 23 Mar 2013 16:35


I am sure she will find her way back if she needs to, sorry I would not have suggested such to her; one should not presume about another's intelligence, after all she did find the boards to post here in the first place, she found her way to the private message I sent her and managed to send a reply, maybe she has not returned because she now has all she needs...


Locator Report 23 Mar 2013 16:05

No Problem Patchem, one sometimes has to send delicate information privately, I don't mind you duplicating the information I have found, as it goes some way to endorse one's findings are correct...

Sorry Reggie not sure what you mean; why would I need to include that, maybe Johanna did not need to come back to this thread & surely she would find a way; if she needed to, besides I feel to just add such 'advice' would seem patronizing....


Reggie Report 22 Mar 2013 22:30

I hope the PM included advice about returning to this thread...........


patchem Report 22 Mar 2013 22:25

Welcome to the boards,

Could you say what sort of private information you have sent, to prevent us duplicating searches?


Locator Report 22 Mar 2013 20:17

Hi Johanna, I have sent you a private message, I hope it helps Good Luck...


Reggie Report 22 Mar 2013 10:18

There is a possible second marriage for him in 1986, but you'd have to get the cert, to verify father's details

That couple are on the ER on 192.............2002-2005


Reggie Report 22 Mar 2013 10:15

When you say 'formerly' of Lowestoft, do you imply that he is deceased..........or merely that he left the area some time after 1974?

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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 22 Mar 2013 00:02

Looks like he was born in Scotland?


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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 21 Mar 2013 23:49

What are you after and when was he born?



Johanna Report 21 Mar 2013 23:34

Bit new to this but would anyone have any info on my father Sidney Russell Lamont formerly of Lowestoft Suffolk?