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'please may i see your tree'

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brummiejan Report 27 Jan 2013 14:43

Can I suggest a more polite wording. People should really devise their own message, but I know many don't, and I think this request would certainly put me off. I now ignore all such messages!
Maybe it would be better to have no heading or message at all so people have to provide their own.


Kense Report 27 Jan 2013 15:10

Jan, there is some discussion on that problem here:


Lesley Report 28 Jan 2013 08:45

I always ask them to let me know who they are looking at first as we all spend lots of money on this hobby. I dont mind sharing but there are certain things I wouldnt share with certain paople if you get my meaning.