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The letter he received... They've been!!

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Unknown

Unknown Report 7 Aug 2005 20:30

Hi So sorry it wasnt as expected. I really hope she reads the letter and responds kindly. Still thinking of your BiL and all your family too hun. Take care. Vikki xx

Liberty64

Liberty64 Report 7 Aug 2005 20:29

oh Sammy Im so sorry to hear things havent turned out as BIL wanted, he must feel deflated! I cant see any reason why she has'nt recieved the letters, unless they are being diverted! From the neighbours description she sounds like a very lonely woman who as Isolated herself away from society. Makes you think about her emotional and mental state! At least BIL as the satisfaction of knowing he tried, not to say that he isnt still dissapointed and should give up though. Lib

The Bag

The Bag Report 7 Aug 2005 20:19

Very very sad, he must feel gutted. thinking of him. little more i can say really. Jess x

Smiley

Smiley Report 7 Aug 2005 20:17

It's not good. They arrived, knocked several times but no reply, it's a bungalow, council type, the windows were open and a dog was barking. My BIL knocked for about 5 minutes then went back to the car. Then he decided to try the neighbours, one side looked empty and the other side is just a bit of land so he approached a woman he saw up the road. He said he was trying to get hold of Mrs H*** and she said ''oh, you mean Annie'' ''oh she wont answer the door, she's a recluse, never goes out, she's got badly injured legs and she can hardly walk.She's got a little collie dog' He knocked some more, but no response. He couldn't hear a TV or anything, other than a dog. He didn't tell the woman who he was, my sister wanted to try more neighbours but BIL didn't want to He then wrote her a short letter saying he had driven from Gloucester in the hopes that he would see her and he was concerned that she's not been getting his letters. He said he would come back anytime if she changed her mind. I cant see it though, can you? Unless she hasn't received her mail and this is a surprise to her, but I don't hold out much hope really. My sister is going to write to several neighbours, not sure what that will achieve because if she doesn't want to see him then that's the end. Sam

Amanda,

Amanda, Report 7 Aug 2005 19:57

Hi Sammy, I hope all went well for BIL and your sister. I'm sure there must be loads of us waiting to hear, just hope it's such good news after a very difficult time for you all. Amanda x

CelticShiv

CelticShiv Report 7 Aug 2005 19:51

No news then yet. I hope things went well.

Karen

Karen Report 7 Aug 2005 18:36

Hiya Sammy Hope everything went well for your bil today. Karen

The Ego

The Ego Report 7 Aug 2005 17:53

They might have got there later than scheduled....the terrain round there is a bit tricky and off the beaten track.

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 7 Aug 2005 17:50

Hope everything went o.k. and BIL has now met his mother. I imagine that if it was about 2 p.m. when they got there and its a four hour drive, then allowing for (hopefully) at least an hour's visit, it's going to be after 7 or 8 tonight before we know anything. Can't wait!! Hope it's good news. Kath. x

Linda G

Linda G Report 7 Aug 2005 17:47

Huryy Up with news Sammy. It's difficult having your fingers crossed all day. Hope it went well. Linda

Liberty64

Liberty64 Report 7 Aug 2005 17:42

Hi Sammy I keep checking back on the thread, Im eager to know if all went as BIL wished! Best wishes xx Lib

Lilly the flower

Lilly the flower Report 7 Aug 2005 17:16

Gosh, Sammy, this is so nerve racking,....... all this waiting,..... I to, have been following this story unfolding, I really hope that it works out OK, for everyone , at least he will know he has done his best, fingers and everything else is crossed, hope the news is good........Lilly

Linen

Linen Report 7 Aug 2005 16:16

I just got back on Sammy, so pleased they've gone & can't wait to hear the good news, still sending lots of positve thoughts Vivienne

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 Aug 2005 16:04

Hi Sammy, Good ;Brave Boy(man), Hope they all all having a cup of tea and sorting things out,,,,,and he comes home with the biggest smile anyone could have:-))) a telephone number and an invite to go again soon., Kay.

The Bag

The Bag Report 7 Aug 2005 16:01

C'mon, C'mon...how did it go...!!!! been garening and have to keep popping back in!! suspense is killing me!!

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 Aug 2005 15:47

Hi Sammy Everything crossed it all goes (or has gone) well. Thinking of your BiL and all your family as you musy be on tenderhooks. Vikki xx

The Ego

The Ego Report 7 Aug 2005 15:07

no news is good news in a way,at the moment ,I guess.

Val

Val Report 7 Aug 2005 14:50

I really hope he doesn't get cold feet again fingers crossed

Dea

Dea Report 7 Aug 2005 14:44

Looking forward to an update - REALLY hope all goes well. Dea x

Tykerose

Tykerose Report 7 Aug 2005 14:14

Hi Have followed this thread but never added to it before .I do hope all goes well today. Love Jan