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Marriage for John Munday and Deborah Milman St Mary Kingswood 3/11/1875, looks like a "shotgun" wedding! possibly son of 1) William and Sarah Munday bap Stinchcombe St Cyr 14/11/1755
or 2) Son of Abraham and Jane Bap 11/6/1751 Avening St Mary.
Fam search has a collection of Mundays in 1841 in Wooten iunder |Edge,but can't find any baptisms to a John and Deborah.
Eileen

My gg grandfather John Milman Mundey was born on the 20/2/1786 in Wotton Under Edge Glouscester, the son of John and Deborah Milman.
I found this entry easily but do not know if he was an only child, or when Deborah died as her husband had a new wife and family by 1791.
Also John married Ann Melvin in 1811 in St Thomas Portsmouth but they do not appear to have any children before Eleanor Jane born in 1830. Seems to be a long time even though he was a sailor. But did they and I have not found them yet. By the time Eleanor was born he was a constable in the Met in London though she was born in Portsea
By 1834 they had moved to Denham Bucks where her sister Ann was born in 1834. On the 1841 census these are the only two children listed.
Eleanor married William Thomas Robinson in 1851 in West Hyde Herts.
John Milman died in 1839 reg Watford.
Missing pieces how I would love to find them
Narelle