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Elizabeth May b 1852 - died 1903 Maidstone

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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 10 Aug 2021 05:38

This looks like Elizabeth baptism

Maybe the second name refers to a father!

Elizabeth Gammon May
Gender: Female
Christening Date: 21 Dec 1851
Christening Place: Aylesford, Kent, England
Phillimore Ecclesiastical Parish Map:
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Mother: Mercy Ann May
Search Photos: Search for 'Aylesford' in the UK City, Town and Village Photos collection

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 10 Aug 2021 05:30

You can get his death cert for its info

Still a young man too !


Jesse James P Honey
Age: 26
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1847
Registration Quarter: Jan-Feb-Mar
Death Registration Place: North Aylesford, Kent, United Kingdom
Death Date: Mar 1873
Inferred Death Place: Kent, United Kingdom
Volume: 2a
Page: 257

Derek

Derek Report 10 Aug 2021 01:07

Many Thanks everyone - I think it confirms that Elizabeth was illegitimate as was her first son Jesse James Paul May - she must have lived as partner with Jesse Senior giving the son Honey surname although i can find no record of a marriage.
Jesse senior dies in Jan 1873 when his son is a little over 1 year old - I have no idea what he suddenly died of, but if his job was a bargee and a dangerous occupation it could be he died by drowning or accident. I remember some story of him dying in the Port of London, but this may have been confused with Robert Wilson's later accident and drowning in Maidstone. I believe Elizabeth May lived with Robert Wilson for awhile as she had a son Robert John May( again illegitimate ) born in 1877 ( later called May Wilson, then officially Wilson after the marriage to Robert Wilson in Aug.1878. She would have known the Honeys and the Wilsons by association via barges and river work and location in Bonneys Yard area of poor housing in King Street Maidstone. Alas with illegitimacy, tracing parentage is impossible. Sadly it closes that route.

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 23:19

Several trees on Ancestry, but none name her Mother, never mind a Father

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 23:11

1881 census wrongly transcribed - Jesse James and Robert John do not have the surname Wilson, the original shows them as MAY

1881 England, Wales & Scotland Census
2, Havock Place, Maidstone, Kent, England

First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Occupation Birth place
Robert Wilson Head Married Male 31 1850 Captain of barge Holbrook, Suffolk, England
Elizabeth Wilson Wife Married Female 28 1853 Wife of captain of barge Maidstone, Kent, England
Jesse James Paul Honey May Wilson Son Single Male 10 1871 Scholar Maidstone, Kent, England
Robert John May Wilson Son Single Male 4 1877 - Maidstone, Kent, England
Thomas Wilson Son Single Male 2 1879 - Maidstone, Kent, England

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 22:59

Do you have the certificate - does she name a Father and his occupation when she marries in 1878 ??

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 22:53

Evening Kathleen!

Jesse James birth reg.

MAY, JESSE JAMES -
GRO Reference: 1871 M Quarter in MAIDSTONE Volume 02A Page 627

and that of Robert John

MAY, ROBERT JOHN -
GRO Reference: 1876 S Quarter in MAIDSTONE Volume 02A Page 641

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 22:49

For out INFO - the census you site

1871 England, Wales & Scotland Census
Bomb Alley, Maidstone, Kent, England

First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Occupation Birth place
Jesse Honey Head - Male 24 1847 Bargeman Kent, England
Elizabeth May Mistress - Female 20 1851 Mill Hand, Kent, England
Jesse May Son - Male 0 1871 - Kent, England

All said to be born in Maidstone

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 9 Aug 2021 22:49

SNAP, greyghost :-)

Kath. x

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 9 Aug 2021 22:48

Could this birth be a possibility? :-

First name(s) Elizabeth
Last name May
Birth quarter 4
Birth year 1851
Mother's maiden name May
District Maidstone
County Kent
Country England
Volume V
Page 359
Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006
Category Birth, Marriage, Death & Parish Records
Subcategory Civil Births
Collections from Great Britain, England

Kath. x

greyghost

greyghost Report 9 Aug 2021 22:47

IF this is her birth registration it indicates that her surname is the same as her Mother's ie illegitimate
Name: Mother's Maiden Surname:
MAY, ELIZABETH -
GRO Reference: 1851 D Quarter in MAIDSTONE Volume 05 Page 359

In which case you may never know her Father's name.

The certificate would at least give her Mother's name to help place her maternal line

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Derek

Derek Report 9 Aug 2021 21:43

I have come up to a dead end in trying to find something about parentage of my Great Grandmother. She was born Elizabeth May and I believe in Maidstone Kent.
in 1871 census she was listed as Mistress to Jesse James Paul Honey b 1847 with baby son Jesse James Paul. Junior) Jesse Senior died in Jan 1873 ( Bomb Alley King street Maidstone. ) She later co habitted with my Grandfather Robert Wilson b 1849 d 1892 ,She had a son Robert John May b 1877 ( later adopted as Wilson) assume originally illigitimate son ) in 1878 they had a second son Thomas Wilson.
Robert and Elizabeth Married in Aug 1878 with 6 further children. Robert was a barge captain dying in a river accident at Maidstone Nov 4th 1892 leaving a large family including my future grandmother.
Alas i have nothing or can find no records for Elizabeth May / Honey / Wilson - she died in Bonneys Yard King Street Maidstone - this was a poor housing area of Victorian terraced cottages and I believe Bomb Alley may well have been in close proximity. It would be nice to establish parentage and siblings of Elizabeth May. I have suspicions she may have links to the river transport and barges with dubious parentage and may be why she doesn't appear in official records unless i have missed a trick. Jesse senior and Junior were both bargees. I would appreciate any help and express my thanks in anticipation.