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I am trying to find my father PAUL FREDERICK WILLIAM THOMAS born 20.02.1942 in Middlesex but last known address was in the bournemouth area. He served in the army untill late 1960s and then was in the TA untill mid 80s, he also worked for Yellow Buses then i think he was a coach driver for Regency. His fathers name is ALEC THOMAS born 27th Febuary, his mothers name is WINIFRED THOMAS born 18th March, he has 3 brothers called NICOLAS THOMAS, VINCE THOMAS and RODNEY THOMAS and a sister called KAREN last known in feltham. He has a son by NANCY called ROBIN who would be about 40ish and then went on to marry MARGARET SUSAN LOUISE THOMAS(nee SARGENT) on 02.03.1968, together they had IAN PAUL THOMAS 19.06.1969, SHARON DIANNA THOMAS 15.05.1971 and JAMIE RICHARD THOMAS 12.03.1974, PAUL and MARGARET divorced on 04.03.1979. PAUL THOMAS then had another son by JACKIE in july 1979 called MICHAEL. PAUL JACKIE and MICHAEL lived in a flat above the TA centre in HOLDENHURST ROAD, BOURNEMOUTH. The last known information that i have is that he lived with a woman with a similar name to JAN or JEN and her 2 daughters at LEE COURT, CHARMINSTER ROAD, BOURNEMOUTH. If anyone has information on any of these people could you please contact me.