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Gillian Jennifer

Gillian Jennifer Report 29 May 2009 22:11

Morris has to have a genetic test, to establish the bad Gene and where it came from......Me......but he was given permission to fly for a short break, and yes, you have guessed it, his appointment came through for when he is away, but, they have rearranged it for......Independance day 4th July...... everything crossed, but I know where it came from.... please be with us on that day, not happy that its at the Freeman's Hospital in Newcastle..but......

Jane

Jane Report 29 May 2009 22:22

Gillian you shouldn't feel guilty that you had the Gene .It wasn't your doing!!!!!
Nothing you could do about it.It sounds like you are beating yourself up .PLEASE DON'T.It was not your choice ,it is something that just is.
PM me if you want a chat.

Gillian Jennifer

Gillian Jennifer Report 29 May 2009 22:33

I will just have to wait and see, in the meantime Morris flies tomorrow. I hope he can relax and enjoy, and I hope they do not take his spray off him, it is new and sealed, so hoping. Cannot help feeling to blame, but I know what you are saying......

 Sue In Yorkshire.

Sue In Yorkshire. Report 29 May 2009 22:39

Hi Gillian.

Please DO NOT feel Guilty.It isn't anyone's fault,just one of theose damn things.

God I wish I could be there to give you a big hug as I know thats what you are needing right now.

Pm me if you need to chat.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((MASSIVE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Jane

Jane Report 29 May 2009 22:43

You let Morris go and enjoy his Break Gillian,he will be fine .You just try and relax awhile and think of Morris having a lovely time.

Gillian Jennifer

Gillian Jennifer Report 29 May 2009 23:45

Have to learn to let go, but so very hard......

*** Mummo ***

*** Mummo *** Report 29 May 2009 23:54

Hi Gillian, its so hard, we are mothers, can we ever let go, sorry l can't but do try and stand back and be here if they ever need me, l do think about you and what your going through, carry on being strong. x

Hoobity

Hoobity Report 29 May 2009 23:58

I always thought the Freeman was an excellent hospital re heart ops and care.

Gillian Jennifer

Gillian Jennifer Report 30 May 2009 00:02

So did I think the Freeman's was great, until I spoke to CRY, we all went to the Freeman's, gosh, so long ago, had the tests, apparently, and got given the all clear, only they forgot to test us under pressure, i.e. after exercise, so Morris has got SADS, they should have picked that up, but they did not, so sceptical......

Hoobity

Hoobity Report 30 May 2009 00:17

Pm'd you Gillian. xx