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Liz are you ok have,nt seen you for afew days let me no if your ok get worried when i dont see you around,has anyone else seen Liz
Love Dutchxx
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Hi Joyce, I did reply on one of your threads about Rachel, I think, I have been around, just not posting much as bit stressed due to o.h. being stressed and ratty.
O.h.'s son is 25 today, the one in America, and so that he can stay over there he is getting married to the woman who paid his fare back at the end of last year. Had he not married her he would have had to come back and stay here for a year, and he felt he wasn't given a big enough welcome last Nov. when he came home and was very fussy about what jobs to apply for, expecting everyone to keep him for free, so he went back.
She is older than him, and has two little girls of 5 and 9, can't believe she is gullible enough to be taken in by this scrounger, who changes girlfriends with the weather usually. O.h. has already had to send money to him to help him pay for everything and he owes thousands over here, to family and county courts. O.h. is upset as he thinks he won't see him again. You can guess my thoughts on that subject lol. His other son is away working abroad for two more weeks, as part of his new job, so muggins has to take o.h. out for Father's Day on Sunday, well that's what he expects anyway. Because he couldn't get hold of the boys on the phone he got stroppy last night, and I am sure will be in a bad mood all weekend, so not condusive to peaceful time at the mo.
I hope your Rachel is ok and you hear from them soon, and that you get to the doctor and get your legs sorted out. Cream for a pulled muscle sounds a bit daft too, so get back and give that doc what for, Dutch lol
take care and please don't worry about me, I am ok and will get round to posting more soon I am sure. He is on lates next week so you can call me if you like, he is apparently working 2pm till midnight yippeee!
Hugs
Lizxxx
Lizxx
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Liz - Tell him to make his way to Seattle.
Set a time and place and I'll give him a good kick up the backside for you
Kids eh?
Deb
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Hi Deb, do you mean the son or the father, cos both could do with a good wakeup call lol
Son is so like his Dad, who always latched onto girls with parents who would take him in, or women who were already 'established' with homes, and oldler than he was. The mother of the boys was divorced when she met my o.h., he is 5 years younger than she is (and 7 yrs younger than me) and she had a property which he moved into, then they sold when they married as arranged by her ex, and used her share of the equity to put down on this house. The older son has done the same but only 40 miles away, met a girl with a flat which they have now sold and bought a house together. None of them have ever stood on their own two feet and built lives for themselves without being propped up by women!
Lizx
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Oh well, o.h. is now step grandad to two little American girls, lol, altho when I mentioned that part he told me not to be daft, but of course, his son is now stepdad to them so follows o.h. is s/g.
That's if the wedding went ahead ok, was at 6.30 pm N.York time, so around 11.30pm here but altho o.h. kept trying to call earlier to wish him luck and a happy birthday, he had no success getting through so was a bit miffed.
Latest info o.h. let slip (he tells me little) is that the girls will be with their father at Christmas and son and new wife hope to visit here at Christmas :>(( - that means lots of pressure to get the house spic and span, altho he will stay with his mother, but they will expect to be entertained at both houses for free and probably will want to 'borrow' as in 'scrounge' the fare or spending money - that's the usual way it goes with his son. Muggins will be expected to do the shopping, cooking and serving meals and drinks, while o.h. sits in awe of the tales son will tell. Then I'll get left the washing up after! Maybe I will arrange to go elsewhere for Christmas lol and leave them all to it!
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Liz come to me for xmas we would have great time
Dutchxx
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Thanks for the invite Joyce, it would be fun and can you imagine Jan and his family, they wouldn't know how to cope with both of us yapping on lol
I would have to bring my son tho, can't leave him on his own in England even tho he has mates.
O.h. doesn't think his son will find the money to get both of them over here, but will see how things go nearer the time as anything can happen twixt now and Christmas, including him getting fed up and leaving her or her getting fed up with him and throwing him out! While he has to keep struggling for money he will not be happy so if he still can't get regular work now he is 'legal' he will soon get stroppy and she will see the real side to him.
Lizx
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