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Remember Me by Lynn New.


No pain beyond, no tears, no fear.
No thoughts of death for I'm still near.
No hugs I know, nor sweet caress,
But I'm still close to love and bless.
No quiet word, nor gentle touch,
But don't despair ~ I love you much.
No gesture kind, to show I care;
The veil's drawn, but I'm still there.
Grieve not too long ~ but look around,
In earthly things I shall be found.
A falling leaf, a growing tree,
In every breeze you will feel me.
I walk in life ~ death holds no pain.
Be Reassured, we'll meet again.


I hope this helps a little to all who are missing loved ones.

Lizx

Uzzi, I'm not going to say on here who I miss and why but really appreciate the thread and the sentiments expressed on it x

Hi Sandie,

I hope this helps. It helped me


Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.


My very, very best, my friend

Sue x

I miss my mum and dad.
Mum died in 1991 and had suffered many strokes and heart attacks the 10 yrs before she died we had done a lot of grieving during that time before her death.
Dad died in 2004 at 90 (2 weeks short of his 91st birthday ) I think of him every day, he had all his marbles and could out argue any MP, but his body wasn't as good as his mind and he died off heart failure, quite suddenly.
I could cry about him now just typing these words.
People will never know how much I miss him so and the heartache doesn't go away.

They say "You Don't Miss What You don't Have" Crap, sorry to say.... I miss my real father, who I never met... Have found his daughter, my half-sister through GR,,,, but god I would love to have know my father,,, I was months away 3 to be exact,,,,, It hurts like hell ! I wonder if he would approve of me my kids my OH my life ! Oh it hurts.... Oops sorry if I have rambled...

Judie
xxxxx

I miss my brother, I used to buy birthday cards on his birthday but moving house a few years ago I decided to recycle them all as they were never sent.

Funny you should say that, Uzzi

I still have my landline number showing on my mobile as "Ian" (my late husband)

The odd time when my daughter's at my house and I'm at work, she'll ring me, and - of course - my mobile shows "Ian". Talk about your blood running cold.

I should change it, of course, but the very idea of "deleting" him seems wrong

Take care, Uzzi

Sue xx

Suemaid I am remembering the fun times




I should change the name on my phone

I miss my Dad everyday although the pain has eased. I still expect him to answer the phone when I ring Mum - even after nearly 3 years. His great grandchildren are growing up so fast. He would loved have seen them grow and he has 3 more since he passed.

I hope you're remembering the good times Uzzi.

Sue xx

Karen in east Londen I can understand that one I also miss a nephew who died 30 years ago at 4yrs old
I still write poems for him and I still lite candles

you know who i miss

I miss 3 special people in my life .... and would love them to get back in touch ! but most of all at the moment, I miss my dad who died last October xxxx

i miss my mum and dad all my family my friend from schooldays who died just before xmas

I miss my gt nephew who died 7 weeks ago, I think about him everyday..x

Rose made my think. I miss my mum saying "don't worry, we'll sort it out" - by which she meant, of course, that she'd sort it out.

She fixed most things for me - anything from a bit of homework on the "I don't get it" pile to an "unforeseen" overdraft.

Come to think of it, I miss being a daughter

Sue x

I miss my Mum and Dad and my best friend who died aged 47 so suddenly.I think about them all every day.

(sorry Uzzi edited as I said what I was thinking and it was a bit raw for me)

I miss my mum telling me "everything will be alright"

xx

I miss my Nan and Gramps i miss bein a kid x

today I miss my Dad , thats a given point .

But I also miss my sis who I will never talk to again, today would have been a good time to talk.

I miss my mum even when I don't care about her
I feel sad for friends that slipped the net and I no longer have contact with


How do you miss ?