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SAME NAME IN LOTS OF TREES HELP

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Karen

Karen Report 25 Jul 2010 22:37

CAN SOMEONE HELP ME I HAVE DESCOVERED THAT THERE IS A MAN WHOS NAME KEEPS APPEARING WHEN I LOOK FOR HOTMATCHES ECT. HE HAS LOTS OF MY FAMILY IN HIS TREE I DONT KNOW WHO HE IS AND HE WONT ANSWER ANY EMAILS. I FIRST EMAILED HIM LAST WEEKEND STILL NO ANSWER. HOW DO I FIND OUT IF HE IS GENUINE OR WHAT?
HELP

Rambling

Rambling Report 25 Jul 2010 22:54

I can't see any reason why he wouldn't be 'genuine' but that doesn't necessarily mean that he could be a close relative..he may be related by marriage and simple have done a lot of research.

A week is not long to answer, has he opened your message? The envelope will be open if he has ( look in your 'sent messages') . If not it could be that he is no longer on the site, or simply on holiday,busy or even ill. If he has opened it and not yet replied be patient for a while, again he may just be too busy to respond right now.

Karen

Karen Report 25 Jul 2010 23:30

THANK YOU FOR YOUR REPLY IT WAS A PM SO I WILL HAVE TO BE PATIENT. THANKS AGAIN YOUR MESSAGE HELPED.
HI BOTH ME AGAIN I JUST CHECKED MY MESSAGES AND HE HAS OPENED ONE SO NOW I KNOW I WILL JUST HAVE TO WAIT AT LEAST I KNOW HE IS STILL AROUND. THANKS AGAIN

KAREN

cane

cane Report 26 Jul 2010 16:49

Hi Karen
i had the same thing happen....i had found my cousin on GR so i sent him a message.I hadnt seen him since i was abt seven,i was later to learn that he had died......