General Chat

Uzzi, how are you feeling today? I hope things have improved.
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love
Helen
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Thank you for doing that, I couldn't find it.

I have nudge the thread up called the Change

The moond swings that not nice and drinking so much as dry all the time. Get that bad just be for i get hot flush

Hazelx

There was a thread on general about the change, can't remember what it was called, I'll have a quick look and see if I can find it.

I've been very lucky, only had hot flushes and night sweats, but my sister went through hell with hers.

Boy Oh Boy i know how you feel.

I am going through it, been 18mts now and getting no better.

I have been down for 7 days now.Today in tears.

Not only that my body hasnt wanted to work today with other problems i have.

I have been on Sage leaf tablets for a month now was told were good and can help,but have to be on them 3 months be for there start to work.

Oh to be a woman.

Hazelx

Uzzi, that must feel awful after having nothing for that length of time and then for Auntie Flo to turn up again. Before I had the hyster in May I hadn't had any symptoms of it at all, no flushes or mood swings or night sweats, and the tests I had done said that there was no sign of it, but within 24 hours of the op I was having hot flushes. I have varying degrees of them but am coping without taking anything for it.

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sorry everybody I will leave this up in the hope that it will help others ..me I'm going to try and cool off and cover the tears before OH gets home from work.

It isn't the fault of anybody here but I just feel so alone,

Take care and have a good evening

Helen I don't shout either , well try not to because it's not fair on my OH .

Julie oh that was my laugh no more monthlies bliss .. until today ..
So now I cry again and don't know why wasn't it enough to be pre ... for 2 years.

Ice have you been back to the Dr's yet?

Thank you Ice

Annie I know what I am going through I just never expected some of the symptoms I have and I am not sure that they are natural but like you I can't turn to family and when I wondered where I could go ,, it was here and trust me it isn't easy for me to do this. BUT I can't go on alone anymore

we hear you Uzzi. I'm going through a surgical menopause at the mo. And some days I want to scream but I bottle it up, I know it's wrong but I prefer it that way. I don't want to create tension in the house.

Uzzi

I coming up to that time too..... im not worried about it as means no more monthlys lolol...but the thing that is doing my head in is my forgetfulness

TC JUlie

I have been having symptoms of an early menopause (I am 36 and no kids), brought on by the chemo pills I have to have. Lots of odd things happening to me and I don't understand why. I can't control them either even though I am aware they are happening and in my mind I want to stop them but can't. Like you I have cried so much I think there can't be any tears left in me, yet they are always there. I don't talk to my family cause they don't want to know me and I have no-one else to talk to except for my wonderful friends here on GR.

Am here for you Uzzi if you ever need a chat.

Love
Annie
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Ice I used to think I would sail through it

lol I nearly did last year.
I was doing 24hrs ago then it changed

No ? I'm actually not joking I have cried nearly all day because I am scared and I don't know why

Suemaid I am now laughing, well grinning but I wasn't earlier, I was hurting and scared and not sure if I could put this on here ..

I'm hearing you, Uzzi.

Sue xx

I know it's menopausal I am not really a bitch
I know that nasty streak I have is just a glitch
but I'm not sure if that show of Shhh
is something to worry about or womanhood

Who do I ask certainly not my mother
She got rid of that after me no other
My step\Mum don't make me laugh
go to the doctor just like it's a cafe

so who do I turn to when
worried and scared
well where else can I shout
and hope that I'm heard