General Chat

in advance to anyone I may upset in the near or distant future. Like most people I have off-days. Sometimes I say things (especially when typing) that can be taken the wrong way. Sometimes my sense of humour just doesn't come across as funny and can be upsetting to some people. Just want to say it is never deliberate (if it was, you'd know about it).

So, here is my commitment to try and do better.

Anyone want to join me?

Beverley, Just leave a few quid behind the Bar and I,ll join you later. **M**.pmslxx.

That is very nice and very commendable, Beverley:-) Err...sorry I cannot join you today, ummm am too old and set in my ways.......lol......>>>runs after Merlin to the bar>>>>

BC XX

Beverly just be yourself hun



i always say you cant please everybody all the time
so please yourself first xx

You are not saying this I hope because I have threatened on another thread if I see any more nastiness/bullying I shall report it!!!!!!! lol

Yes, Chris - you guessed!!

Terrified the life out of me.

Thought I'd get my apologies in first

:-)))

I 'never' say anything wrong.....













You too can be as boring as me :-))))

Beverley, I don't think we have spoken, so you have never offended me in any way.
I lost a good friend because her husband read an email of mine and interpreted it wrongly (even though I think she read it right and it was addressed to her) but he, being the 'controller' type, told her not to write to me again. That was years ago and I haven't heard from her since - so I learned very early, that the written word doesn't necessarily come across as the spoken word does - so whatever I write, I ask myself if it can be interpreted another way - before I hit the Submit button.

Hi Berona

That is such a shame to lose a good friend that way. I understand about the written word being different from the spoken - hence my apology.

I can sometimes say things wrong which could have the effect of upsetting people so writing things wrong is worse because it's always there for everyone to see.

I never think it hurts to apologise in advance. At least people now know my intentions are good (and hopefully I won't be reported - lol)

Beverley