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Jans cousins wife Sjiaan died on friday age 61 yrs old of cancer and tomorrow is her funeral,thoughts for the family and could i also ask if you dont mind please,for my friends to give me there strength on the day as it brings back sad memorys of my daughter dying just five weeks ago i realy hope i can keep it together as i have to be by Jans side ,its not been avery good times for both our familys Jan and mine,but it realy helps knowing my friends are by my side ,thank you
Sjiaan no more pain now you can rest in peace
Dutchx

Sincere condolences to Jan and his family at this very sad time... also Joyce, I will be thinking of you and feel sure you will be strong for Jan, as always, will be in touch soon
much love and prayers to you both Jean xxx

Sorry to hear this, may she rest in peace.
Thinking of all the family, x

Dear Dutch

Hello

Sending caring and wam thoughts to your family.

Gentle hugs for you.

Take care
Very sincere wishes
xx

Hello Dutch..
Sending massive ((((HUGS)))) to you and Jan and my condolences.
So sorry to hear this, you have had a bad time lately.

Love
jude xxxx
(was wondering where you were)

Hi Joyce,

Sending our condolences to you, Jan and his family.

You'll be in our thoughts and prayers tomorrow.

Take care of yourselves!

Love and best wishes to you and Jan. Sallie and Alun.xxxx

Dear Joyce,
my sympathy to Jan and his family.
Thinking of you also,
(((((((hugs)))))))

Cath xx

Hi, thoughts and prayers to you and yours. You have had more than your share of grief.

Thank you ladys had to get up for some pain killers but my g,daughters also rang me the younger one Danni who is having ababy was sent sent home from work ,her mums partner who she calls dad said she could have her mums ashes but now has change his mind and gone with my sons words to put them on her uncles grave,i have told my other g,daughter her sister to ring the undertaker first thing in the morning to stop there mums ashes going to Liverpool im so upset by all this its breaking my g,daughters heart and were worried about the baby ,she was crying her eyes out last night ,im trying to do all i can to help i have told my older g,daughter to ring first thing as it was his fault he gave them to one of my sons when in fact they should have been given to my daughters son,ive told g,daughter to tell him he has to get them back or she will take it further,sorry to add it on this thread but i cant sleep for thinking of what my g,daughters are going thru and im not well enough to go and help them,im realy going to be no good tomorrow everything is taking its toll on me .so just going back to bed to see if i can sleep and thank you for the pm and your surport ,im realy going to need it
Dutchx

Hi Joyce, I just found your text late last evening, didn't reply as it might have woken you.
I am so sorry about Sjiaan and hope you will be ok to support Jan and the family at the funeral, it's awful the things that have happened of late to your family and Jan's.

Hope Danni will be ok and they can get the problem with J'S ashes sorted out, it's a scandal that the undertaker hasn't done more to get the ashes back. I think someone should have rung the police about it as your son who picked them up was so wrong to deceive the undertaker and collect them.

Hope you are getting some sleep, should be about later this afternoon so will text you and you can call me if you are around, maybe you will need to go back to bed tho after the funeral.

Take care love, and give Jan a hug from me too and one for you.

Lizxxx