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and why? xx

ME,

Because I don't have to place trust in anyone else.

Love many, trust few and always paddle your own canoe:-))

Sue

SueMaid, that was my mum's mantra lol.

Best friend? me, as per Foggy's answer.

Learnt the hard way, you are the only person you can rely on 100% and the only one who can never reach round far enough to stab you in the back!

Morning all, well mine is my OH always there for me and
trust him completely. Known one another for 54 years and
married for 50. Don't need anyone else. lol

Emmax

me also didnt put as i thought i would be the only one lol, dont trust specky and we are now seperated and best friends yep learnt the hard way too im cool with myself and like me ( someone has too) lol xx

I have three close friends who all have different qualities that I cherish. But my bestest pal is the one who irritates me less than the others and who has a sunny nature. Like others, I am also on very good terms with myself:-) BC XX

Well Puss I also like myself and think thats a nice feeling.
I didn't hesitate to put my OH but thought I might get a bit
of leg pulling. If you feel you are a nice person thats all that
matters cause no one knows you better than yourself. lol

Emmax

Me!

I love Suemaid's motto - its soooo true. I have some great friends whom I love to bits, but they have their own familities / priorities so the only person I can really rely on is me.

There do seem to be a lot of us who think like this!

Tina xx

I think it is lovely that you can feel like that about you OH Emma.

I am seperated from mine now but we were together for a long time. I don't think I could ever have said that about him - he was too busy thinking about himself. We should never have stayed together as long as we did but when you have children it affects your decisions. I am so much happier now running my own life

Tina xx

I don't have one best friend ....I have 4-5 excellent ones who have been with me through thick and thin and who I would trust with my life.

My OH is one of them x

Tina it's true when you have children to think about it
can be a difficult situation, but now you are your own
person and enjoying life thats a blessing. I thank my
lucky star for my OH he turned out to be a good un. lol

Emmax

yes i also think ive wasted 9 yrs but looking back ive had fun so it wasnt a total waste even tho he wasnt the cause of the fun lol, learnt to trust no one and now im a happy little bee coming and going like a flea lol xx

I don't have a best friend...I don't trust anyone enough to let them get that close....Had a best friend once that really dumped on me...

Jules x

Jules.................you got likkle old me!!!! xxxx

i dont really have one best friend i have many
they are all important to me in different ways
and for different reasons

Sorry Susan, I forgot!! lol.....Will pm you later xx

Like Joy I have some very close friends, we have known one another ranging from 50 down to 20 odd years.

I had a life threating operation last year and I was really moved by the out pouring of concern and friendship shown by my family and close friends.

Love them all,

Gina

i have lots off very close friends & with out them i wouldn't have got through things but the other half will always b my best friend.


"""u can b in a rm off ur closest friends & still b lonely"""

Apart from OH - I have one very best friend now (all the others unfortunately have gone before me) and have known her for over 50 years, think it is because I know all her secrets but she doesn't know all of mine! Thinks she does!!!!