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My OH had colon cancer in 2005. They found 2 polyps, one was cancerous. So they removed about 18" of his colon. No further treatment required.

He's fine.


His sister is going through it now ................ ti seems that it is in the family ............ grandmother, father, now the 2 siblings.

She left hers longer, and is having to go through chemotherapy. Prognosis good.


All of our children (3 or hers, 1 of ours) are going to have to start having colonoscopies when they reach 40, just in case.



We got through it with laughter ........ some might think it dark humour at times .......... just the same way that we got through my two breast cancers with mastectomies, one in 1995 and one in 2011.



Good luck to your friend, Chris ........... and to you xxxx




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Chris , just continue being you.. talk about everything including death..
I really hope it won't come to this and things work out with treatment

You TC Love...XXXX

Chris, as a cancer survivor myself, I'm sending positive thoughts to you and your friend. Please keep upbeat, it's a shock to get that initial diagnosis, but treatment is so very effective these days. It's great that she has such a friend to share her feelings with.

Liz, we do and have just been talking to her, laughing and being positive!

What a lovely friendship you have Chris, I hope it can continue for a long time yet. I think if you try to behave as you usually do when talking with your friend and just go along with the way she leads you, you will know each other well enough to know when to chat and poke fun and when to be serious. I am sure your support will be worth lots to her.

Lizxx

Liz, the bit about letting off steam made me smile, as over all the years, we each have called our offspring for everything under the sun! We have wept together, laughed hysterically at nothing at all.

She came on holiday abroad with us and we swore the other guests in the hotel did not know which one of us my OH was married to!

Thank you for your thoughts, they are much appreciated.

Chris, so sorry to read this news and hope your friend can be helped to fight this horrible illness. I hope her family will realise she is trying to be strong for them and tell her it's ok to lean on them altho being strong might be the way she is and will help her to cope. So long as you are there at the end of the phone for her to let off steam with when she maybe can't talk to others, you will be doing almost as much good as being with her in person.

Take care of yourself - I wish you strength to help your friend at such a difficult time, best wishes to her

Lizxx

It's all a lot slower and harder than I expected

Thank you MrDaff for your thoughts and mine go to you as well. It is a cruel disease.

My friend is a strong person and I just hope it has been caught early. Take care

Lost two this weekend.
One a good, long standing friend and the other a respected work associate.
But in my 'circle', they are/were as close to being family members as you can get without being related.
Both 'young' as well.
Both with cancer.

Chris, wish you both strength and courage.

Thank you Dizzi, you take care. How is the new bed going?

Sending positive thoughts to your friend Chris. xx

Dizzi I have not been on for a week. Hope you are getting better with each day.

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Chris sending what strength I have to you and her ,

((((((((((Hugs)))))))))

Thank you allxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am very sorry to read this Chris, as I have been there too.My closest friend here in Holland died in 2006(just months after my beloved aunty who lived with me)....leaves a big gaping hole, so I can understand how you must be feeling.I sincerely hope her cancer has been caught in time, bless her.
I don't believe in coincidences, but do believe in telepathy, so you unwittingly sent those flowers when she sorely needed them. That's what I really believe in.
I wish you all the strength and courage to get through the coming time, as i do for your friend too. !!!
Bless you all.

Eileen xx

I am sorry to hear this chris. I am sure that she knows you would be there to see her if you physically could. I hope they have caught the cancer in time to effect a cure so will keep her in my thoughts, and you too as you suffer with her. <3

Chris I'm so sorry to hear this about your friend, I'm sending positive thought's to you and your friend, you may not be able to be there with her but I'm sure she know's you would be if you could. Just knowing you are there on the other end of the phone will be a big help if she need's to talk, keep your chin up things may not be as bad as you think they are going to be :-)

Take care <3

My Heart goes out to you Chris, same thing happened to me last year, my friend and me had knoewn each other for 56 years but we had moved away when I was ten we kept in touch for years then lost touch for 30 years I found her on the internet in 2007 and went spent 5 wonderful days with her it was like we had never been apart. And we talked three or four times a week on the phone.

When she told me she had cancer I cried for her and me and for our friendship, but I was there for her, and Im there for her partner now when he needs to talk.

Take care Chris <3 <3

with luck the cancer will be confind to a small area
and be able to be removed
lets keep our fingers crossed for a good result

in the mean time laugh together cry together and kick a few doors :-( :-(

Joy that is it - after all those years we are more than sisters - in fact her mother adopted me when I was 38!!

I did tell her off today - she said she had to stay strong for her 4 children - youngest is 50 and one daughter lives with her. I told her that they needed to be strong - for her, that now is your time to lean, be supported and cared for, and let them.