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RolloTheRed | Report | 9 Nov 2017 16:55 |
"Old people invest their last living space with their soul, their stuff and their creations. It is of no use the small insistent waves wash away a once dear place called home now no more than a place marked by its ordinaryness and emptiness. |
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Rambling | Report | 9 Nov 2017 17:18 |
:-( Hard isn't it. |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 9 Nov 2017 17:37 |
Well I think I am ticking over two years on |
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Rambling | Report | 9 Nov 2017 18:15 |
Shirley, I think that is one of the situations when you do feel very alone. My friend mentions often that she feels jealous when she sees neighbours going out as a couple,as it reminds her of how she and OH used to potter out to a garden centre for coffee and so on. |
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LaGooner | Report | 9 Nov 2017 18:18 |
I often stop and chat to people who look upset and lonely. If we all did this the world would be a much better place :-) |
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Dermot | Report | 9 Nov 2017 18:36 |
You can easily judge your true friends by the way they help you when you are in a spot of bother. |
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LaGooner | Report | 9 Nov 2017 18:37 |
To right Dermot, I have had a few fair weather friends in the past. I also though have some really true friends :-) |
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RockyMountainShy | Report | 9 Nov 2017 19:10 |
When my Mum died, Dad was very busy within a month she was 'gone' so to speak. Everything was transferred from her name to my name, her clothes were donated. and he was wondering when he would not feel so sad :-( :-0 |
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Rambling | Report | 9 Nov 2017 19:31 |
RockyMountainShy 3 years is not long to feel constantly sad if they were together a long time, it is a different relationship isn't it, husband/wife to daughter/mother so the feelings are inevitably somewhat different, as the memories are. That applies with siblings too...my brother knew my mum longer than I did, and through different times, he dealt with her death differently perhaps. |
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RockyMountainShy | Report | 9 Nov 2017 22:17 |
Nyx - That's is why I want to keep her clothes for after he joins her (when and where ever that may be). They are all in dust-safe bags and hanging in a room that used to be their bedroom, (he moved into the front room.) Maybe I won't be able to wear her clothes either but yes I will wait until later to find out. I have kept her handbag. Dad thinks he gave it away. I have no intention of using it but it's in my closet and it's nice to know its there. :-D |
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Mary J | Report | 10 Nov 2017 09:10 |
I have a cardigan that belonged to my Dad, it was his best cardigan from C&A. When he had a stroke and was unable to go out so much he used to wear it just in the house. I helped my Mom to sort his belongings when he passed in 2002 and I kept the cardigan as it held such precious memories of him wearing it. Whenever I feel sad I wear it as it feels liked being hugged by him. I also have several of my late Moms clothes that I wear day to day, I was with her when she bought a lot of them and I know she would be pleased I kept them to use myself. Sadness comes quite often now as I have a baby Grandson who they would have adored. |
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Dermot | Report | 10 Nov 2017 09:25 |
Mary J - a lovely uplifting posting. Well said. |
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LaGooner | Report | 10 Nov 2017 09:42 |
That is so lovely Mary J <3. I have very few things of my Dad's ,he died when I was 17 and I still miss him a lot. I have his pipe and I can still smell his tobacco when I open the box it is kept in. It is a comfort to me when I feel down and I also have a beautiful picture of him in a frame which I often talk to. <3 |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 10 Nov 2017 09:49 |
I have Michael's dressing gown as well as his glasses ,wallet and hearing aids and watch |
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+++DetEcTive+++ | Report | 10 Nov 2017 11:52 |
Our neighbour is a bit like MaryJ. She’s kept her husband’s dressing gown hanging on the back of the bedroom door & occasionally wears his fleece if she’s cold. Like Mary, she feels as if she’s being hugged by him. |
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Barbra | Report | 10 Nov 2017 12:43 |
My late Dad had an Arran Sweater I still have it remember him wearing it always looked smart he died 2005 as Mary J says its something I wont part with <3 <3 |
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JoyLouise | Report | 10 Nov 2017 12:55 |
I have a few reminders of my parents but I am lucky enough to have a tape of Mum playing the piano and Dad singing. The original recording was on one of those old round tapes in my uncle's and aunt's effects as it was done one Christmas when we all got together at their house when we were children. |
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Mary J | Report | 10 Nov 2017 15:13 |
I have a lot of things that Mom knitted and I had all her knitting patterns, needles etc. There were a few items that she had started knitting and never finished and some wool that had been knit and unraveled. I have used some of it to knit things for my grandson which his Mom is thrilled about as the wool has passed through my Moms hands. I haven't had to clear the house of ornaments etc as my brother still lives there but I know I will find it very difficult to deal with things that meant such a lot to both parents as I don't have room to keep them all. |