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On Christmas Day it would have been my mums 97th birthday but we lost her in July she had a great sense of humour right up to the end and I would put her birthday on here most years and she loved to read the best wishes. I count myself lucky to have had her as long as I did two of her children where retired and the third had just a few more years to go Christmas is going to very strange this year

Lots of lovely memories though Linda <3 <3 <3

The first anniversary for all times are the worse to get through

Events like the first Christmas.their birthday , a wedding anniversary etc are sad times as we think about them and mourn that they aren’t here

I found it helped to think they were so poorly that I wouldn’t want them to be still suffering and they are now at peace

It never goes away but knowing that they had a great life and made a good age is a comfort and keeps them close in your heart

Your mum and all the memory’s you made will always be with you



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Linda,

Your Mum will be with you all as you talk about happy memories and feel the love together. You could start a new tradition/memory for each Christmas to come, say buy a card and everyone write a message/memory in it. Next year do the same and read out the previous year's memories.

Your Mum will know.

Lizxx

The day before my last birthday I had come come down to see her and we were watching tv and she turned to me and out of the blue said you know your adopted don’t you ( I know I’m not ) I said is my brother no is my sister no but you are and I’m not telling you who your mother is on my birthday she was telling all the cares I was 70 which was a lie in the end I said if you don’t stop I’m going to roll you up and use as a football we so laughter very funny lady

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Elizabeth, EOS
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