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Stephen Lloyd Howlett / Pamela H J Howlett

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ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 13:46


I am trying to find my half brother Stephen Lloyd Howlett. We have never met as I was adopted at birth. I believe he married a Pamela H J Jones or Pamela H Jones. The last electoral roll registration is in 2007. A lady on a private Facebook page said she had found him living somewhere in 2010 but she won't tell me where :( . If anyone can help me I would be do grateful.

Thank you

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Nov 2016 14:20

Where was he in 2007 ???

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Nov 2016 14:25

Ok found them in Northamptonshire

Have you tried the btonilne phonebook


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 14:39

there is a Stephen on facebook in kettering Northamptonshire how old would he be now?


ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 16:36

Hello :) no I haven't tried btonline. I've never heard if it. I will take a look.

He was born in 1971 and Pamela 1965. They were living in Daventry


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 16:42

yes upto 2007 Iooked on the 192 but its the same I am in Northamptonshire looked in the phone book they are not listed so I don't think they will be in bto on line most people have mobils now and not land lines


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 16:44

the Stephen I found on facebook looks about the age if born in 1971


ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 16:52

I just has a look and found the guy you mentioned. It looks like he has two daughters. I'm not sure if he had any other children other than two boys. One was adopted and the other passed away as a baby. I might drop him a message anyway just to see if it could be him.


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 16:59

there is a Stephen Lloyd howlett born Birmingham 1971 looks like he was adopted mothers name was stanworth


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 17:03

another child born 1973 howlett mother stanworth Birmingham

do you know if Stephen was adopted where was he born there is another Stephen Lloyd howlett born Lambeth 1971 mother walker could that be your stephen


ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 17:16

My brother was born to Dorothy Stanworth. There were five siblings in total. I think he must have been adopted to his father's new wife as he went to live with his Dad. I have contacted them after searching but he hasn't been in contact with them for 20 years. It's a bit of a complicated situation.

I am trying to piece together Pamela's family to see if they know where they are. I am really struggling to find out who they are. Pamela was born in Birmingham in 1965. Her birth record says Pamela H j Jones but she is down as Pamela H howlett on the electoral register.


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 17:58

I found the marriage to Dorothy married joseph p howlett 1970

there is a marriage for dennis m jones and Doreen rouse in Birmingham

pamela's mother is rouse I can see 3 girls born Birmingham there including pamela to that marriage

most people would only use their name and one middle name on electrol roll


ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 18:51

I have come across Doreen and Dennis. There are three Daughters but one of them is Sandra evenue though she was bon in Solihull. I found them all on Facebook. I have messaged them but I have had no reply. How do you know that Pamela us their daughter?

I spotted another couple that married - wallace Jone and Beatrice M Rouse and wondered if they may have moved to Birmingham and had Pamela.


malyon Report 29 Nov 2016 19:37

because Doreen and dennise were married in Birmingham


ZoeCharles Report 29 Nov 2016 20:02

I am not 100% sure if they are her parents but there is a good chance


ZoeCharles Report 30 Nov 2016 20:06

It turns out that the three sisters are not related to pamela so I'm back to square one with her :(


Jordan Report 24 Jan 2021 16:32

Hello Zoe, I'm also looking for this man as he's my father.
I'm They boy he had that was adopted, my brother Aaron passed away at birth but they also had a little girl they called Kimberly.
My name was Jorne Pierre Sinclair Howlett,
My mother Pamela Howlett and Father both live in Northamptonshire Daventry
I really hope this message finds you as I'd love to meet you and finally meet them one day.
I send you all my love


ArgyllGran Report 24 Jan 2021 16:44

Welcome to the boards, Jordan.

As it's over 4 years since Zoe last posted, she isn't likely to be looking here for replies now.
You can try sending her a private message by clicking on her name in green at the top of one of her posts, and using the resulting online form.

If she hasn't changed her email address since then, GR will be able to notify her, and then if you're lucky, she may be able to read and reply to your message.

Good luck!
Don't expect an instant response - people often take ages to reply , assuming they've been able to receive the message in the first place.

In the meantime, you might want to remove your parents' address from this public forum, for the sake of privacy.