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I want to find second cousin

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Terence Report 6 Dec 2021 22:04

I'm looking for help to find and regain contact with Sharon Warren, ( maiden name ), my second cousin, whom I'd lost touch with in the early 1980's.

The last details I have, are

In the 1980's she lived with her parents and brother and sister in Waltham Abbey,
She worked in Tesco's offices in Cheshunt
She was born in 1961, and should be 60 years of age this year 2021

I've just joined this site today, 6th December 2021, and so hope it'll bring success in find her.

Thanks kindly in advance for any and all help



malyon Report 6 Dec 2021 22:29

do you know her parents names


ArgyllGran Report 6 Dec 2021 23:19

Welcome to the boards, Terry.

Unfortunately we need a bit more information than you've given, if we are to have a chance of finding her.

There were six girls named Sharon Warren born in 1961, in England/Wales.

Does she have a middle name?
What are the names of her brother and sister?


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 08:47

Have you done anything yourself to try to find her?


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 08:52

Possibly the one born in Stepney, based on other info found

If so, parents Richard and Rosita

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Dec 2021 09:25

Details on freebmd of sister born 1964 and brother born 1969

Father Richard mmn Mills possibly born 1931


ArgyllGran Report 7 Dec 2021 09:43

Checking out probable siblings for each of the six, none of them appears to have just one sister and one brother as Terry states.

The Stepney child probably had a second sister born in 1977, in Enfield.

Of course the other families, with less unusual MMNs, may also have had children in more than one place, making them not immediately obvious, or Terry may be mistaken about the siblings.


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 09:58

The 1977 birth was to a different couple - check marriages


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 10:17

Looks like we're on the right track, in view of the poster's surname


nameslessone Report 7 Dec 2021 10:34

Terence may not realise he needs to check back so am sending him a pm.


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 11:41

Based purely on the premise that sisters would marry in the same geographical area, there are possible marriages for Sharon and her sister in Epping Forest district of Essex

This could be their father's death

GRO Reference: DOR Q1/2013 in ESSEX (463-1Q) Entry Number 507858510

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Dec 2021 12:18

Rosita/ Rosina brother George john Agomber married the sister of Richard Warren in 1955

BIRTH 22 OCT 1928 • Bethnal Green, London, Middlesex, England
DEATH OCT 2003 • Chelmsford, Essex, England

Annie Victoria WARREN
BIRTH 17 JUNE 1933 • Stepney, London, Middlesex, England
DEATH AUG 2002 • Chelmsford, Essex, England

Don’t know if it’s worth seeing who the informants were with addresses

Richards death cert May be more helpful though


ArgyllGran Report 7 Dec 2021 12:31

If the Epping Forest marriage for Sharon is the right one - which seems likely - she and her husband were on the ER for Harlow, Essex in 2020.

The house has not been sold since then, according to Zoopla.

Have PM'd details to Terry.

Terry -
look out for an email from GR, with a link to my message.
It's not a scam email!
But it might go into your junk mail folder.


ErikaH Report 7 Dec 2021 14:21

GRO Reference: DOR Q1/2011 in ESSEX (463-1Q) Entry Number 504299470


ArgyllGran Report 7 Dec 2021 23:42

PM from Terry confirms we have the right birth - born in April, middle name Ann.


ErikaH Report 8 Dec 2021 09:56

Please ask the poster to respond on here


ArgyllGran Report 8 Dec 2021 11:51

Yes, I have done.


ErikaH Report 8 Dec 2021 16:28

:-D :-D :-D


Terence Report 8 Dec 2021 18:34

Thanks and regards to all who've provided info or tried helping with my search, I now know how and where to make contact with my much missed cousin.

Much appreciation