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Partner of 3yrs has left me 8-(

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{****wendylady****}

{****wendylady****} Report 18 Jun 2008 18:24

Maybe sue... that i feel i failed the first time now im failing again...he is young than me by 10yrs and lot of pretty ladies same age as me work with him and i feel now inadequate.. that i aint good enough for him..

Sue

Sue Report 18 Jun 2008 18:18

Why do you think you have done something wrong? Please don't! You cannot blame yourself. You need time to accept this and that will also give him the space to reconsider his decision.

He may be regretting it, seems that it was a very hasty act. I am not much use with words in situations like this. Someone who is far more able than me will be along soon to help.

Please try not to be so upset.

Take care

Sue x

{****wendylady****}

{****wendylady****} Report 18 Jun 2008 18:13

My partner of three years has gone and walked out on me...... we meet 3 years ago... before i meet him i was on my own a few years after a marriage of 20yrs failed.... my x hubby left me and my daughter in debt.. no house... no friends... heartbroken... and ran off with my friend... i had to start again... was on my own for a few years... until i met my partner... he lived a distance away... and we used to see each other at weekends... we decided after a short while we would be together and live together... everything was going well except for the odd argument now and again.... but suddely he stormed out on monday eveing after a stupid little petty arguement called me some bad names... and now says he doesnt want to come back and me and him are finished... for good..... im lost dont know what to do with myself..... i saw him today at his works he said hello.... and i asked him a few questions about the sky whats in his name... what was he going to do about it.... he said leave it for a while and he would see to it.... so he told me he wants to be on his own.... keep himself to is self.... so i walked away and told him i wont bother him anymore.. and leave him in peace.... i just feel used and hurt because when i met him he hadnt got nothing.... lived in a crummy bedsit nothing to his name.... i gave him a home and my family excepted him... as he has any family who dont keep in contact with him..... what did i do wrong to be hurt again like this... why do i have bad luck with relationships.... im very weepy...