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Speaking ill of the dead
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 3 Oct 2012 15:35 |
yes sharron i agree the truths the truth :-D |
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Malcolm | Report | 3 Oct 2012 15:37 |
In my community I am often called upon to "do the honours" when someone snuffs it. I've studied the form and believe that it's false and pointless to cover up if someone has lived a less than blameless life. |
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~Lynda~ | Report | 3 Oct 2012 15:38 |
It can be that only after a death, you can feel the freedom to say what you think of someone, knowing that they are unable to hurl abuse, as it seems in cases like yours Sharron. I don't know your story, but imagine you feel some sort of relief, that you can no longer be abused. Sorry if I'm speaking out of turn, but if that is not your case, I'm sure it is in a lot of cases. |
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♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ | Report | 3 Oct 2012 15:46 |
I believe that you should NOT come up with things against a person once they have died as you are not punishing them just their families. |
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Guinevere | Report | 3 Oct 2012 15:55 |
Some of the women did go to the police at the time, Carol, but they were just kids. |
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Sharron | Report | 3 Oct 2012 16:03 |
Those who are dead can no longer be harmed but the living need to be healed. |
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Joeva | Report | 3 Oct 2012 16:54 |
A woman was interviewed on TV today and gave a very graphic description of her and a friend's ordeal. Their abuse was to form part of a documentary made by the BBC many years ago but was shelved, without explanation. |
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~Lynda~ | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:08 |
For those of us who remember the pre 90's, it wasn't, in a lot of circles, thought proper to talk about sex, let alone tell anyone if someone had been inappropriate towards you, you probably wouldn't have even known the words to use. |
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Lady Cutie | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:15 |
My sister in law died about 2/3 yrs ago |
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Sharron | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:22 |
Where do you draw the line at not speaking ill of the dead? |
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~Lynda~ | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:29 |
As I'm sure did Pol Pot did Sharron :-0 |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:30 |
to be honest its my opinion |
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Sharron | Report | 3 Oct 2012 17:54 |
Everybody knows how it was with my childhood.I have gone on remorselessly about it. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 3 Oct 2012 18:47 |
Didn't I hear that there a programme about him and his 'ways' in 2007? |
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~Lynda~ | Report | 3 Oct 2012 19:42 |
Hi Sharron, when a child has nobody to turn to and then they choose you to confide in, it's often because they know you're a good listener, and above all they trust you, that in itself is a great honour. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 3 Oct 2012 19:48 |
Have to admit that if anything like this had come out after a relation of mine had died, I wouldn't have been very happy. |
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Susan10146857 | Report | 4 Oct 2012 00:15 |
Hmmmm! |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 4 Oct 2012 00:23 |
Just watched the programe. |
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Penny | Report | 4 Oct 2012 07:28 |
Stoke Mandeville hospital was thronging with TV reporters yesterday, wanting someone to dish the dirt. |
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hazel | Report | 4 Oct 2012 11:08 |
well, one childs word against a massive "celebrity" seems like no contest to me. the only thing is, that perhaps now , the "house of cards" or "can of worms" will gain momentum, and other predators from childrens "homes" and similar will be exposed.there are a number of messages on the web from years ago, stating about the abuse at duncroft.not only the chemical cosh,but "visitors" including professional psychiatric staff.esther rantzen? well, she said herself it was an open secret, she kept quiet, why? protecting herself? |