General Chat

Ginnie, I always remember you made her a special card and she absolutely loved it. I think she sent me a photo of it at the time too. Was it one of Daff's army uniform? :-)

Hayley, that was a good meet wasn't it and I can vouch that you stayed sober, don't think you stayed still long enough to drink much. I was sorry to miss Sue and her OH but we had a train to catch.

I also think of Daff when I see things about Peppa Pig, I never met her but was welcomed to her thread and it became the !st thread that I looked at when coming on GR. The warmth she had came through on that thread and I think all of us that joined 'Daff's Army' felt that.

I would imagine that wherever she is and whatever she does now it involves glitter and glue.

She was truly a special person.

When l think of Daff its always with a smile on my face :-D
even when she told me off once about what l said about my mum, l know it was for my own good and boy did l remember her words in the future.
A true friend who is missed by so many, xx

Thanks Sue for marking the anniversary sadly I didn't have the pleasure of meeting dear Daff but corresponded with her and loved her zest for life.
I've loved reading of your memories AnnCardiff and AnninGlos.

Daff loved crafting/glittering and playing with her littlies and I always smile when I see anything connected to Peppa Pig lol

My last memory was when she detailed one of her walks in hospital 'traipsing the corridors with this ruddy line'.....always with a good sense of humour :-D

I too will raise a glass tomorrow to our dear Daff who is a big,big miss on GR she will always be remembered.

Mau XX

Sue I've PMd you :-)

Daff was, and still is in my thoughts, the Jiminy Cricket 'conscience' on my shoulder lol, she would so often send me a message in the middle of a heated debate on the boards, making me laugh and edging me away from being banned for life lol.

It doesn't seem like a year, but the thought of putting up the Christmas lights reminded me of Daff this week :-D

Last time I actually saw Daff was the South Wales meet July 2010, we went out on the friday night just her Mr Daff me and Itsmytelly, I was banned from here at the time, we were supposed to be going for a chinese buffett, which she kept telling me was right next door to our hotel, its massive she kept saying and I was saying its compeletely empty no chinese buffett there, your looking in the wrong place she instisted, of course it had gone, we laughed and R rolled his eyes Daff face of shock. :-0

She had actually been to have her bloods done that day and I think we all knew that awful illness was back as she looked very tried at the end of the night.

The Saturday was the meet and Daff had rised money on here for Ashley, we had an audtion, it was a small meet but I met some lovely people Jude Jean Ann Julieann and her dad Gwyn Tina and of course most of their long suffering partners. :-D

I had walked Tina to the train station I actually stayed sober at that meet, must be a first and Sue and Himself turned up later, we all had a drink together, and then we saw Daff and R in to a taxi lots of hugs and cuddles that was the last time i saw her, i didnt think it would of been the last or I would of hugged her forever .

The following morning we had a lovely breakfast with Sue and Himself, both Itsmytelly and I really enjoyed that weekend.


I cant swear that I think of Daff everyday but she is often in my thoughts and willbe forever in my heart. <3

Thank you Sue, it is marked on my calendar, but I would not have forgotten anyway.

Daff was, funny, doolally, warm, caring and loving. she was closer to me than my own sister, even though I only knew her for a few years. She always made me laugh, even when I was cross.

She always missed birthdays, then sent flowers to apologise for missing them, or insisted that R drove her here to personally deliver a present on their way up the motorway to visit their son, and that was only the month before she went into hospital in 2010, there she suddenly was on the doorstep with a big grin on her face.

She was not good at time keeping, always losing things, on one occasion going to a party for Dizzie's birthday, Daff first lost her phone (not unusual), then her satnav. eventually arrived at the party late having first tried to join another party down the road.

she loved her craft work and especially loved glitter, she always spoke about how once she started everything was coated in glitter. I bet Mr Daff still finds it everywhere.

She loved to talk..... a lot. It is a good job her R is a quiet man, he'd have had trouble getting a word in anyway.

We will raise a glass to her tomorrow, she left a big hole in my life when she left us but she also left many many happy memories. Thanks Daff, keep them giggling wherever you are. :-D

can't believe it's a year!!! I too have very fond memories of Daff - bumping into to her unexpectedly down our village, having coffee with her, going to Family History fairs and meets with her - she was so bubbly and knew so much about all sorts of things

last time I met her down our village - quite by chance - she was coming out of Lloyds bank having set up an account so we could all contribute to a fund for the son of one of our members - he had been badly injured in Afghanistan - just the kind of person our Daff was - a one off!!!

Tomorrow it will be a year since we lost Daff. I shall be travelling to the Valleys and of course thinking of her and Mr. Daff.

I didn’t want to mark this anniversary with doom and gloom, Daff would be throwing bricks instead of glitter...lol

Talking with Mr. Daff over the past 12 months lots of events have made us laugh… Daff’s idea of filing important paperwork was to bury it in the huge quantities of linen. That’s the first place you would look……………..not!

Her decision to change her passwords from those totally logical ones used previously to combinations that would challenge someone with a Masters in cryptography! We had a real giggle offering suggestions.

All Daff’s family history research is not being wasted, one of her nieces is taking on the challenge.

I often read through emails, pms, look at photographs and usually laugh because she would be telling me to ‘shut up’ in case I got a GR holiday ;-) That was when she had her Mrs. Sensible hat on.

Tomorrow evening we will have a glass of wine and recall the hilarious moments we shared, like Daff sticking her tongue in my ear (I do have photographic proof). Her only excuse was she had ‘sunstroke’ at the time. Daff apologising for groping my husband because he and Mr. Daff were both wearing green jumpers ;-)

I hope you will do the same. Also share some of your funny memories so we can all laugh together, she would love that :-D



Sue
xx