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Kathy near the

Kathy near the Report 31 Jan 2013 12:44


Thinking about you on this sad day

Kathy xxxxx


AnninGlos Report 31 Jan 2013 12:36

Of course you should think about her, and take her flowers. Bless her, it is so hard to lose a little one so sending you a ((((((hug)))))).

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 31 Jan 2013 12:34

Thinking of you and your son as you visit Zoe's grave today.




Island Report 31 Jan 2013 12:26

Liz, I don't know who would say 'don't think about the past'.
It doesn't matter how long a loved one is in our lives for, they are still very much part of our families and in our hearts forever. <3


SpanishEyes Report 31 Jan 2013 12:16

My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a child. My older brother Greame died at 4 hours and because he had not been baptised he could not be placed into sacred land. However the priest gave permission to be buried beside a wall of the church. My mother was sedated as the doctor felt she would not cope!

When I learnt about this I vowed to visit every year and did so until we left England but the vicar and some friends always rember him on the day he died. I imagine him every day.

Liz, you will always be with your daughter and the memory is yours to cherish, I will say a prayer for you both.

Bridget <3


DIZZI Report 31 Jan 2013 11:05


Brenda from Wales

Brenda from Wales Report 31 Jan 2013 10:37

Oh Liz,didn't know about your sad loss so long ago.You never forget.
We had a cot death 24 years ago.My daughters youngest son was an identical twin and we lost Thomas at 4 months on an older brothers 7th birthday.
The family never forget his birthday and do look after the grave.
The other twin now has a son of his own who will be 1 next week and they have called him Thomas.
(((((( hugs))))) for you Liz x x

Rambling Rose

Rambling Rose Report 31 Jan 2013 10:27

sending ((((((hugs))))) to you Liz, xx

Linda G

Linda G Report 31 Jan 2013 09:04

That's so touching. I am sure Zoe knows you have never forgotton her.


*** Mummo ***

*** Mummo *** Report 31 Jan 2013 08:22

Thinking of you today, x


PricklyHolly Report 31 Jan 2013 07:24

I can't even begin to imagine.

))))Hugs(((( x


UzziInSunshine Report 31 Jan 2013 07:19

sending (((((hugs)))))) to you

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 31 Jan 2013 06:48

but just want to mark my late daughter's birthday today, she would have been 39 years old had she lived. Sadly I only had her for 3 days as she was very tiny, having been born ten weeks prematurely. My son and I will go to the cemetery later today to put some flowers on her grave altho she isn't really there - she is in my heart forever.

Some people say don't think about the past but her loss had such an impact on me that I will never forget her.

See you one of these days, Zoe

much love