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Court battle to see kids - wish list
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~Looby Loo~ | Report | 27 Apr 2013 08:07 |
Hi +++DetEcTive+++, Purple**^*Sparkly*^***Diamond Annie and all those whose names I've missed. Sorry to have missed you off the previous replies. |
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SpanishEyes | Report | 27 Apr 2013 08:02 |
My stepson spent about four years trying to get custody of his fhree children. In the end everything he had told the authorities was proved to be correct. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 27 Apr 2013 07:41 |
I would think something on the lines of rather the father or you be ' palmed off ' with the children than a random boyfriend of the moment and his family. It could maybe be stated that unless she has been with the boyfriend for more than a year (or six months - your son's choice) then he is not to be left with the children or be expected or expect to act as surrogate father or childminder, if you get my drift. |
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~Looby Loo~ | Report | 27 Apr 2013 00:26 |
Hi TaniaNZ - That's brilliant, thanks so much, never thought of that one, she has moved twice so never thought about a different location. |
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ann | Report | 26 Apr 2013 22:19 |
My daughter has been to court over access to her little boy and his father. He wanted shared residency. Little boys nan had interfered and told her son to take it to court as she had wanted to see the little boy. This woman had called social services, bad mouthed my daughter to her ex work friends and called the council to say she had someone living with her. All found to be her meddling.Court case cost thousands. She has agreed he can have him every other week-end from Friday to Sunday evening 1 weeks summer holiday that includes the week-end he would have him. She can have 2 weeks holiday and take him abroad. Mothers hold the passport. Now 6 months on and his mother has now butted out, my daughter lets him have more than the court order as she feels her son wants to be with his dad and benefits from this. There is a lot more to the court order like collection and dropping off. Only he is allowed this if he cant make it then no-one else can pick him up. Its just for father and son. No bad mouthing from both families in front of child. |
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Nolls from Harrogate | Report | 26 Apr 2013 21:58 |
Perhaps be informed If /When the mother has a new boyfriend/partner who will be staying overnight at the house . It's not fair on the children if strangers just appear or move in |
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TaniaNZ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 21:50 |
Also add that they can't move anywhere that interferes with his rights to access and the children's right to access there dad. |
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~Looby Loo~ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 18:42 |
Thanks Kay, that's a good idea. |
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Kay???? | Report | 26 Apr 2013 18:28 |
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~Looby Loo~ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 18:16 |
Hi Everyone, |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 26 Apr 2013 17:51 |
Are the chldren of an age to say what THEY would like? |
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Penny | Report | 26 Apr 2013 15:15 |
For his children to feel happy and relaxed in his comany. |
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♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 14:08 |
Joint custody/shared residency |
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Daftoldbat | Report | 26 Apr 2013 13:57 |
My son receives the weekly newsletter from his son's school, which helps us all stay in touch. |
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Kay???? | Report | 26 Apr 2013 13:47 |
Hi first wish should be that the children want him as part of their lives,,,,,a wish list isnt all about what a parents wants for themselves but for the happiness they create for their children in what time is spent with them. |
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AnninGlos | Report | 26 Apr 2013 13:11 |
Maybe permission for them to visit you as grandparent, or at least remain in contact with you. |
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+++DetEcTive+++ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 12:54 |
Never having been in this situation, probably suggestions rather than advice |
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~Looby Loo~ | Report | 26 Apr 2013 12:06 |
My son has been fighting to see his children more, his ex had stopped all contact with the children last year. It's been ongoing for a year. He does have them 1 day a week now, and he's fighting for shared access. She uses the kids for her own benefit and manipulates things in such nasty ways. She has done things and tried things we'd never imagine. She's even got people to lie for her in court against my son but thankfully got not guilty. the barrister told him he needs a 'wish list' for the last hearing, and I wondered if any of you out there have come across any ideas that she might throw up again in the future that we can try and avoid now.. The wish list is supposed to be about what wishes the court to grant with regards to the kids. Apart from shared residency we are concerned that she won't produce their passports if he ever booked a holiday.. We know we can mention this on the wish list but has anyone come across this type of thing and can advise us of their experiences and what to add. |
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