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I have been following your thread Uzzi, so sorry to hear about your mum.

I am sure she has always known just how much you loved her.

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I am sure your Mum heard those words Uzzi, as the doctors say the hearing is usually the last sense to go and she would have known in her heart anyway, whatever went on between you.

I expect Jack was the one to fetch her 'home' but your Dad was probably prompting him, I hope they are together now and she is content. Probably watching to see what you are choosing and such for the service.

Take care

Lizxx

So sorry, Uzzi. You showed your Mum how much you loved her, more than any words could have done.
Take good care of yourself. Lynda X <3

Thank you once more to everybody for your kind words and thoughts,

Sue in Leeds ..how right you were about my thoughts of the nursing home ""if I had left her in the nursing home would she be still alive."" they were my exact words. I have to say that I hope Mum and Dad are NOT re-united in heaven because Dad will turn in his Urn but I hope that Mum and Jack (my step dad) are because I know he loved her right to his end.

Sharron Your post is not inappropriate to me at all, as somebody who has met me and heard me cussing it is only natural, My problem is not trying to love her but realizing how much I did.

About my advice about telling you love when alive not after. I did tell Mum many times in some form or other in the last 5days and my last words to her whilst she was breathing was telling her I loved her and she had to wake up because we had bingo games to go and win. I just hope she heard. but 5 days isn´t a lot of time and some form or other is not those 3 little words. <3

My condolences to you.

Those of us who have lost a mother (probably far too many to count) and who have read your threads about yours, will sympathise with you.

Take care. <3

Not on much these day's,but noticed your post.
So sorry for your loss and I am sure she knew you loved her.

Marion

My deepest sympathy to you and yours.

Actions speak louder than words, you did so much for her, she knew you loved her.
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Uzzi Im so very very sorry.....deepest sympathy to you and yours...

Much Love <3 <3

Can I just add that if you didn't love her there will be a reason.

Don't try to make yourself just because she is dead.

I hope this is not inappropriate and I am sorry if it is.

Sincere condolences,
Liz

So Sad, so soon after all the upheaval and the promise of a start of a new life .......
My condolences,to you, and yours, Uzzi,


Bob

Uzzi,
Sorry to hear your sad news.

You did everything and more for your Mum to make her last days happy and she knew you loved her.

You kept your promise to your Dad and did more than any daughter could have done.

I bet what is going through your mind right now is"""if I had left her in the nursing home would she be still alive.""

Not neccessarily as she could have died in the nursing home even before the move.

Now your Dad and Mum are reunited in Heaven and both watching over you and your OH.

Take time to grieve and after the funeral is over take time for yourself, hubby and Mutts.

Then take one day at a time.

You will come out of the other side of grief and be a stronger person for your experience.

My love and thoughts are with you.

RIP Uzzi's Mum
Another Angel in Heaven.

Sue <3 <3 <3 <3

Please don't beat yourself up about not saying I love you to your Mum, there is no need for you to feel bad about it.

Anyone can say the words, you showed the power of your love in your actions.

She knew and will still know and I believe both your Mum and Dad will be watching over you with pride.

xx

Sincere condolences to you Uzzi and your family..

May your mum REST IN PEACE <3.

jude xx <3

Uzzi
I am another that has read your threads, especially the latest on the trials of setting up your home for mum.

I am so sorry for your loss.

When all that needs to be done has been done remember to take timeout just for yourself and your other half.

Ah Uzzi, what a terrible shock for you. My sincere condolences. BCXX <3

So sorry for your news

Shirley <3

I to have read your posts but not added. You have done all you could for her and I echo others comments. You did your best to keep the promise to your Dad and you did all you could for your Mum. You can only do your best in life and no more. My condolences to you and all others concerned. <3

So sorry to hear this Uzzi. Be comforted by knowing that you did everything you could do for your Mum. I am sure she knew in her heart how much you cared; sometimes words aren't needed. Take time to grieve and be kind to yourself now.

RIP Uzzi's Mum.

Vera

After following your threads about your life with your Mum although never adding to them I feel I must say that you have done more than enough in your endeavors to keep your Mum comfortable and happy.

May your Mum RIP and that you take time out for yourself when formalities are over.

Frances <3