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Tawny | Report | 27 May 2016 21:55 |
Programme that was on a couple of nights ago 24 Hours in Police Custody. This weeks episode was on domestic violence. A bloke drank 14 pints and then held a kitchen knife to his wife's throat and threatened to kill her if she ever had an affair but it was all in jest :-( hilarious isn't it :-( |
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Rambling | Report | 27 May 2016 21:59 |
Yet the women often stay because "he loves me and he only acts this way when he's drunk" :-( |
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Tawny | Report | 27 May 2016 22:01 |
Like most women it was shown at the end that she stayed :-( |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 28 May 2016 12:13 |
and yet advertising for alcohol is allowed everywhere - abuse of alcohol costs this country millions - smokers are vilified constantly, but smokers don't abuse people after smoking a pack and they don't cause mayhem in A & E |
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Rambling | Report | 28 May 2016 12:32 |
I take your point Ann, but to me the crux of it is not really about how someone behaves when they're drunk (or sober, because the abuse can just as easily come without drink) but the lack of self respect that allows women ( and men ) to stay with an abusive partner and keep making excuses for them eg "It's my fault because...I annoyed him, his dinner wasn't ready, I forgot to buy the beer, I talked when he was watching TV " etc etc. |
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Tawny | Report | 6 Jul 2016 22:17 |
A bloke (Bob) I was going out with 12 years ago was jealous of my friends. I had been working with them for up to 12 hours a day 10 days on the trot two days off then the cycle started again. I had been been doing this for 2 years they were more like family than some of my blood relations. I had been seeing Bob for 3 months when he got a job in the same place. |
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Annx | Report | 6 Jul 2016 23:30 |
I must admit I get sick of 'drink' being trotted out as being responsible for such bad behaviour. We are all responsible for our own behaviour and if they know drink causes them to behave like this, then they shouldn't drink!! |
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Andysmum | Report | 7 Jul 2016 10:39 |
Actually leaving takes a lot of courage. Many women have little or no money of their own, no close relatives or friends to offer them somewhere to go and, frequently, young children to consider. |
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♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ | Report | 7 Jul 2016 21:13 |
Until you have been in this situation, you have no idea what it is like. |