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Finding my Daughter

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Valerie Report 5 Aug 2013 22:58

In November 1964 I had a baby girl,. She was born in Rustington Nursing Home Littlehampton. I had to have her adopted as I was working on a holiday camp away from home. I named her Ceny's, My name was Valerie Callow, I was 23 years old.

I can not remember the exact day or year but I got a call asking me if I had given birth to a baby girl in 1964 and called her Ceny's. I said I had why, and she said that she was that little girl.

I think it was very late 80s or very early 90s. I met her at my friends house in Hereforshire. She said she was called Sarah Payne. Her husband was called Simon Payne. They had a daughter I think called Rebbeca. and she was pregnant with a little boy. She lived in Yorkly woods Forest of Dean. She said she had, had a lovely upbringing and was very happily married. I told my youngest daughter about it all and we both went to meet her at her house. My youngest met up with her once more. My eldest came over from Canada to oxford to meet up with people and phoned her twice so they could meet but Sarah didnt go. Tracey my youngest lost touch, and apparantly she didnt want to see me anymore because she only did get in touch to pay me back and she had an ideal life.

My husband and I moved to Cyprus in 2002. we stayed there for over 10 years returning to Uk for good, a year ago. In 2003 i was on the computer playing Crib live and I was playing a bloke and we always ask where from etc. he said Forest of dean, I said how strange is that my middle daughter lives in yorkley woods, F.O.D. He said who is it I may know her. I said Sarah payne. he asked was she married to Simon Payne. I said yes but asked what he meant by was . He said she is devorced. I asked if he knew where she had gone and he said as far as he knew Cheltenham. I am writing now to see if you can help me locate her. We live in somerset so it is not far away. I am getting older now and I really do not know if she has decided she would look for me again once she ended up on her own, One of her parents died and her brother died so she may just may like to come back into my life. I would like her too to make my peace with her before it is too late. Can you help please or suggest something I may be able to do to find her,

I await your answer.

Hi again sorry about this but everything thing may help

My Eldest daughter has given me the following info on Sarah who i am trying to find.

She signed herself Sara Jones. This could be her maiden name or adoptive name.

Her first daughter or child she had was born 17/11/1991Called Charlotte

Her second a bot called Thomas 19.2.1993. Not when i met her she had Charlotte and was expecting so it has to be 1992 when we met. Hope this helps a little more.

Val Barrett re Callow

Val Barrett / re Callow


patchem Report 5 Aug 2013 23:32

Her adopted name was probably Sara L Jones

Was her first daughter Rebecca or Charlotte?
(You need to remove the exact dates of birth, as this is a public board)


Liz 47

Liz 47 Report 6 Aug 2013 00:38

There are several people with this name on the electoral rolls -


Click ADD REPLY button - not this link!

Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 6 Aug 2013 01:20

Go to Search at the top and select Search All Member Trees.

She is on this site.