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Flings,illegitimate child......any hope?

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Samantha

Samantha Report 22 Feb 2017 20:53

Hi All,
I am wondering if there is any hope of finding anything....

My grandfather was born back in the late 1930s, ........ we have been told that his mother is Scottish (I know this as I have her in my tree and all her details) but she always maintained that my grandfathers dad was a Polish soldier who came over during the war, they had a fling and the result was my grandfather..........

His mum passed away and never revealed his dads name so we are left wondering.....

Is there anyway we would be able to trace anything at all? Would a birth have to be recorded? Would there be anything at all?

His name is
IAN CROCKETT
Born : 29th July 1941

His Mother is
Margaret Helen Crockett
Born in Kilmaron in approx 1918

Any advice gratefully accepted as Id love to find this missing piece..

Thank you

Samantha

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 22 Feb 2017 21:06

Well his birth should be recorded but may not have a father's name on it

Where was he born as not seeing in on freebmd

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 22 Feb 2017 21:10

So he was born in Scotland

You can order a copy of his cert through Scotlands People


Surname Forename Gender Year Ref RD Name Image View
CROCKETT
IAN
M
1941
420/ 74
Cupar
Order Certificate. £10

Samantha

Samantha Report 22 Feb 2017 21:15

Shirley - where on earth did you find that?? I havent been able to find anything about him...

Yes that is him, born in Cupar. x

ArgyllGran

ArgyllGran Report 22 Feb 2017 21:16

As his surname was registered as Crockett, it seems unlikely that his father will have been named on the cert.

The birth record is on Scotlands People.

Samantha

Samantha Report 22 Feb 2017 21:20

I just wondered if maybe there would of been some sort of announcement or anything of his birth but as he is illegitimate I am seriously doubting it.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 22 Feb 2017 21:52

The birth is on Scotlands People you can buy a copy cert through Scotlands People

I would doubt that any father is named on the cert

ArgyllGran

ArgyllGran Report 22 Feb 2017 21:53

As she was living in Fife, the "Fife Free Press" is the most likely paper for an announcement - though I agree, it's unlikely if her son was illegitimate.


If you want to trawl through the paper copy by copy, the Fife Free Press and Kirkcaldy Guardian are here:

http://www.britishnewspaperarchive.co.uk

You'd have to join, and it's not free to search.

If ChrisHo sees this, I'm sure a look-up will soon be done!

Chris Ho :)

Chris Ho :) Report 23 Feb 2017 09:09

Not seeing anything, saw below from google search, which led to Deaths posted...

(always worth having Newspapers access, can't always find what you are after, but other names often pop up)

Chris :)

http://boards.ancestry.co.uk/thread.aspx?mv=flat&m=55&p=surnames.leask


11 January 1916 - Aberdeen Press and Journal - Aberdeen, Aberdeenshire

Death
CROCKETT - At 104, Great Western Road, Aberdeen, on the 9th inst., Hellen Leask. widow of Bannerman Crockett, aged 74 years. Funeral on Wednesday, 12th inst., at 1 p.m., Peterculter Churchyard. Friends please accept this (the only) intimation and invitation.


11 October 1905 - Aberdeen Press and Journal - Aberdeen, Aberdeenshire

Death
CROCKETT - At. Morningside Cottage, Mannofleld, on the 10th inst., Bannerman Crockett, miller, Late of Brotherfleld and Blairton, Belhelvie.

greyghost

greyghost Report 23 Feb 2017 16:08

Related thread - better to keep to the one thread about the same person which would be better to be this one as there are more answers already.

http://www.genesreunited.co.uk/boards/board/military_chat/thread/1364894

Extra info that you posted on that other thread

His mother was in the Army.

The only Polish forces I can find in Cupar at that time is the 1st Rifle Bgd (I'm presuming that means Brigade)

Gwen in Kent has replied on the other thread -

Did Margaret later marry?

Maybe a later husband and Margaret adopted her child and a birth father's name would appear on the adoption papers?

Did the birth father pay any maintenance for his child?
If so, there might be a record of the order somewhere.

greyghost

greyghost Report 23 Feb 2017 16:20

If his Mother was in the army you may be able to get her records - which may or may not give any information. They will cost £30 and may take a while to arrive.

https://www.gov.uk/get-copy-military-service-records/overview

Margaret

Margaret Report 23 Feb 2017 19:09

Sometimes a mother might appeal to the courts- 'paternity decrees'- they certainly had them in Scotland. Not sure when they stopped.
Have you done a DNA test yet? That will tell you if the Polish soldier is a myth or not.
Get his birh cert and as greyghost suggests, any military info. as soon as you can.
The cost is well worth it and will give other info even f not what you were looking for.

Meg

Samantha

Samantha Report 17 May 2017 18:56

MEg - I have had a DNA test done and the Polish bloodline is indeed confirmed so not a myth - I did wonder myself though to be honest.

I have also ordered his mothers army records as well and am still waiting on them arriving. I will be ordering his birth certificate this weekend too

GlasgowLass

GlasgowLass Report 18 May 2017 09:37

There is no other surname on the 1941 birth index

Mother's subsequent marriage ?

CROCKETT
MARGARET HELEN

RUSSELL
DAVID GULLAND L
1952
420/ 49
49
Cupar

Samantha

Samantha Report 18 May 2017 10:13

That is his step father GlasgowLass.
So definitely the right one but still no luck finding his actual father

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 19 May 2017 01:08

she would have had to leave the army when pregnant, would she not?

mgnv

mgnv Report 19 May 2017 10:48

There has always been a difference between English and Scottish law and regulations governing registration of births. I think, from 1875 on in England, the father of an illeg. birth could be named on a birth certificate. One proviso was that both the mother and the father had to agree to this - initially they both had to go to the registrar together, but this was later relaxed so the father could go to any registrar in England (or maybe even the UK), and was later relaxed even further to allow the father to send in a form - if signed abroad, it had to signed before a notary or equivalent (I just came across a New Brunswick birth that was modified by a statement sworn before a Nova Scotia JP)> The mother had to countersign thiese distant applications to indicate her approval.

On the other hand, there was no restriction nor checking on who he named as parents on his marriage registration, nor who an informant named as his parents on a death registration.

GlasgowLass

GlasgowLass Report 25 May 2017 11:40

I looked at this birth cert yesterday whilst at the GRO
Mother registered the birth.

No father is listed
(mother's occupation had no connection to the forces or women's land army)