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Ive been nursing my dad for the last month.
He passed away last sunday.
The funeral is on tuesday 19th.
I dont want sympathy, just letting you know where ive been.
xxx

As a dad carer myself, my thoughts are with you.
Sharron

Thank you Sharron.
I have lots to say but cant put into words.
xxx

Hi Leanne

Welcome back

My respect to you.

Colin

Welcome back Leanne.

(((hugs))) xx

Thankyou Colin and Muffy.XXX

I cant explain how i feel, i havnt cried yet,
i know im not the only one to lose a parent ,, but it feels like it...
xxxx

It does hurt Leanne.................he was a very precious person and he must have been incredibly proud of you.

xx

thinking of you hun

xxx

thank you Kitty:)
yes i think he was proud of his two girls.

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Hi Leanne

Losing someone close affects us all in so many different ways. There are no direct ways of how we should feel at the time. We are all here for you at anytime you feel you need someone.

Welcome back Leanne,

((((hugs)))))

Karen x

Stray, thankyou.
It seems so long since i been on here.
Ive missed you all.
xxx

Leanne,

My heart goes out for you. I know the pain and the feelings having lost my Mum at Easter. The tears will come, but we all deal with the grief in our own ways.

Take care.

PP
xx

Karen thank you.

Colin, i cried so much over the time i was looking after him, worry and watching him deterioate (spelling)
My sis is just the same though, we are keeping busy not thinking of it.
xxxx

Pauline, my heart goes out to you too. XXX

I have warned my OH that i dont know when its going to come out, but i know it will. probably over something small!
xxx

Bless You Leanne being a carer for a long period of time is very hard and seeing the degeneration of our loved ones over that time, I believe we go through an early pre grieving process. I know that feeling. Although I have yet to experience the final time myself. Sometimes we feel we have to be strong for those around us also and cry our tears alone.

Your dad must really have been very proud of you.

My sympathy to you Leanne for the loss of your dad.

I know the pain, and can only say remember the good times you spent together, they will help to keep you going.

Mau (xx)

Colin, I cant cry infront of people.
Ive looked after my dad for a long time, doing his washing/ironing, cutting his hair, housework,
but it was different when he was ill, cos he just gave up. So hard.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
xxxx

Mau, hello love,
thankyou.
xxx

Welcome back Leanne............I too know the odd feeling of it all being over......I looked after my dear Mum for two years.........bless you and your sister xx

Peace to your Dad x