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Moral dilemma.........

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McAnne's Gahan-Crazy

McAnne's Gahan-Crazy Report 19 Aug 2009 19:12

Damn right i would take it !!

You should see the amount of money i' ve been stung for over the years in bank charges........shame daylight robbery by a bank is not a crime lol

Anyway how can they prove you took it? you ask for £20 it gives you £40 but i bet your slip still says you got £20 so it's their word against yours ;O)

BarneyKent

BarneyKent Report 19 Aug 2009 17:59

Ann, I did say I was joshing.

I was also brought up to be honest, I always give change back if its too much and would never steal anything.

But I think if Banking Bosses and City Workers earning the money they do, buying Porsches and drinking £500 bottles of bubbly on their way home, provide machines that go wrong: TO U G H.

Uggers

Uggers Report 19 Aug 2009 17:19

I don't feel that way, Ann. Not about a bank. I was also brought up to be honest and respect other people's property. If I'm given too much change in a shop or undercharged, I fess up, especially in a small shop but if I asked a cash machine for 50 quid and it gave me a 100 quid, I'd skip merrily down the road with my conscience in tact:)))

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 19 Aug 2009 16:44

It was a Tesco machine, can't remember where and the bank has said it wont be chasing people for the money. No wonder people flock to these machines when they hear of it. If the banks don't prosecute it is encouraging them to do it. No doubt some charge or other will go up and we will all pay.

Bernie, I am no way naive but was just brought up to be honest and respect other people's property.

Rambling

Rambling Report 19 Aug 2009 15:24

Theft from a business is often seen as a 'victimless' crime.
When I worked for a major retailer, there was a very small percentage allowance for stock loss before the annual bonus was paid to full time staff... anything over that and the bonus was stopped.

One shoplifter ( well two women actually) went from one end of the high street to the other having a dip here and there...their reasoning before the court ( they were caught stealing in Woolies) was that they got fed up of waiting in the queue ( busy close to Christmas) and thought the big stores could well stand the small loss.

But someone always pays, be it in lost bonus for a small number , or raised prices for everyone

Wildgoose

Wildgoose Report 19 Aug 2009 15:24

Years ago I took £40 out of an ATM inside the bank. I retrieved my card, turned away and realised instantly I had forgotten to take the money. The money had gone; must have been the person behind me couldn't believe his luck. I told the bank staff member and he said if you don't take the money after a minute or so the machine takes the money back so you don't lose it. He checked my account but my £40 had gone to the lucky one.

BarneyKent

BarneyKent Report 19 Aug 2009 15:17

Dear Ann,

There is a word for lovely people like you - its "Naive".

Can I have your share?

ps. Just joshing.

BarneyKent

BarneyKent Report 19 Aug 2009 15:15

Still thinking on this, my "conscience" gene is kicking in.

City bank worker's basic salaries rose by 6 per cent in the first half of this year, that's without any bonus.

My conscience gene has just been kicked into touch. Where's this money machine thats paying double? I WANT SOME OF IT !!!!!!

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 19 Aug 2009 13:53

David, surely theft is keeping something that you know is not yours?

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 19 Aug 2009 13:48

BERNIE
YOU WONT GET A FUDDY CHANCE
IM IN FRONT

MONEY COME TO MOMMA

Uggers

Uggers Report 19 Aug 2009 13:48

Absolutely and without hesitation or moral trauma. Not theft in my book. Theft is taking something that doesn't belong to you not being given something that doesn't belong to you.

BarneyKent

BarneyKent Report 19 Aug 2009 11:48

Had another think on this one.

I have just read that Sir Fred Goodwin, (yes, that's right, the guy who took £9 million in bonus from a bank the taxpayer bailed out), is back in Britain. He has hired two PR guys to help "improve his image".


Well I have had my rethink and:


YOU BLOODY BET I WOULD KEEP TAKING THE MONEY !!!!!!!!!!

suzian

suzian Report 18 Aug 2009 22:34

Hi Eldrick

The concept of "what is stealing?" isn't really difficult - it just means "taking what doesn't belong to you"

More interesting are the lengths that people are prepared to go to, and the consequences......


ie, take a paperclip from work - does anyone care and will I get caught? - no, on both counts. So that's ok, then

take a pen from work - ditto

take a few spare quid from the malfunctioning ATM - mmmmmmmmmm

take a few quid from the cashier at the bank - NO

Sue x

Joanne in Burgess Hill™

Joanne in Burgess Hill™ Report 18 Aug 2009 22:24

~~~~~~~~~~ back to Diane. xx

Eldrick

Eldrick Report 18 Aug 2009 22:21

It is theft. Official definition - 'dishonestly appropriating the property of another with the intention to permanently deprive that person of it.'

Interesting moral dilemma. Most people wouldn't think of themselves as thieves for doing it, but that's what it is - plain and simple. Don't forget - all transactions are logged and you would be caught regardless of CCTV.

So are there 'degrees' of theft? I don't personally think so. Mitigation, maybe, but the end result is the same, is it not? Maybe the thought that the bank can stand the loss is mitigation in the mind of anyone who did it, but the same could apply to the Great Train Robbery or that big jewellery theft last week. Is taking a pencil or a wad of copying paper from your employer the same? Is stealing a book from Smiths acceptable? They could stand the loss just as much as the bank, surely?

The concept of what constitutes stealing is very interesting!

suzian

suzian Report 18 Aug 2009 22:18

I'd rush into the nearest branch of the bank and return the lot....


Or not....


Sue x

SueMaid

SueMaid Report 18 Aug 2009 21:45

Muffy I'd love to say no I wouldn't take advantage......but I just don't know. I remember being at an ATM when a young boy was taking out some money and he left a note lying there. OH went haring after him to give him the money but I guess that's different.

Sue xx

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 18 Aug 2009 21:30

no moral dilemma about it YES I would,

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 18 Aug 2009 21:21

WOULD I ,,,HONEST


MOVE OUT OF THE FLIPPIN WAY WOMAN



THINK I GAVE MYSELF AWAY THERE

Kay????

Kay???? Report 18 Aug 2009 21:04

Oh yes please
>where it happening:}

,,,,,,and I have had 40 extra when two lots of £20 new notes were stuck together few years ago,,,,too late to take it back after I spent it:}}}}}}